Really Harsh Pain And Still Emotional

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Britney - October 11

Hi, about 6 weeks ago i had a miscarriage. Of course i was left devestated by the loss, but i am still extremely emotional. My fiancee is starting to really worry about me because my emotions are still so out of whack. I cry at the littlest things, and as hard as i purpose to not be upset throughout the day, i cant help it, something will happen and i can't control my emotions. Is it normal to be this emotional this much after a miscarriage? This isn't the main reason i'm writing though. Early this morning i had my first period since the m/c. Normally my periods will cause pain, but only a little bit on the first day in my legs, rarely or never in my stomach or uterus. But this morning it started hurting at 4 in the morning and I couldnt even move it was so bad. I tried to walk to the bathroom and I almost passed out from the pain. A sharp stabbing pain was in my uterus whenever i would move. And if i didn't lay on my side it was sooooooo painful. I thought i was going to go into shock and have to be rushed to the hospital because the pain was so intense. Is it normal to be in this much pain during the first period after a miscarriage? Please help me. Thanks

 

Boo - October 11

Britney: Hi. I m/c in July. All I can say is that things were really weird for a long time after it happened. My body did not get back to normal physically or emotionally. My af was awful. It was painful, started one day, then nothing for two days and then REALLY heavy for two days. I am not a nurse but would say that your body is clearing everything out. But I'd never hesitate to call your doctor and talk to someone. Mostly it's fear and we're really in tune with our bodies after something like this happens. Believe me, you are not alone in your feelings.

 

Kim - October 11

Hi Britney: I am so very sorry for you. Miscarriage is so devastating and shocking. I think in terms of your emotions, you are completely normal. I still experience the swinging of my moods more dramatically, and it has been 4 months since mine. It will take a while for the hormones to settle, and even longer for the pain and distress of losing a baby to begin to subside. In terms of your physical pain - that does not sound good at all. I would definitely contact your doctor. I would think that after 6 weeks, everything should be out of your uterus and if it's not, then you run the risk of an infection, which is painful and potentially harmful to your fertility. Keep us posted and good luck to you...my most positive thoughts are with you.

 

tgread - October 11

hi brittany,i agree with boo, and kim, i had a miscarriage in august and on oct. 4 keep hoping all was well, but is not.so hard to talk about,today i am not bleeding but severe cramps in uterus,and all preggy signs are gone. sad again . you hang in there cause.i do agree with kim.go see a doc if you can. good luck xoxoxox tgread

 

john - October 11

hi there..my wife have a m.c at 14wks..Her first AF come at 6 weeks..in her 2nd cycle..the ovulation period is only 3 days, compare to 5-6 before the m.c..Now her 3rd AF is strange..first day just little pink discharge, next day some brown, and 3rd full force of AF in red..She said it's very strange..We trying to TTC for our first child but nuthing so far..So I can understand your feeling..

 

tgread - October 11

ps how far along are you and what what kind of bleeding did you do[sorry if to personal]

 

tgread - October 11

if your wife needs to talk she can email me at [email protected] hope she is well

 

tgread - October 11

sorry wrong address [email protected]

 

Britney - October 14

We were anywhere from 3-5 months we never went to a doctor about it because it was a secret. I bled heavily with large piece of fetal tissue

 

Kim - October 14

Britney, oh honey, if you were never seen by a doctor you need to go in right away. They need to be sure that everything is out and that your uterus is healthy, especially with the symptoms you've been having.

 

Britney - October 14

I Can't

 

Kim - October 14

Why not?

 

Britney - October 14

Because no one knows about it and if they found out it could be bad. Do you have an email address, so i can talk to you more. I need someone to talk to right now

 

Kim - October 14

Sure - it's [email protected]

 

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