Starting Over After D Amp C Or MC 12

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Mrs.Hath - March 13

Welcome to Sandwaby or Sandhaby: SANDWABY (Sad And Having A Baby) Sandwaby is a virtual retreat when we are feeling blue. It is the name of our baby depression. It's a place where there is an abundance of chips, chocolate and yummy snacks, but there are no calories to go along with it. There is always a full bar stocked should you need it. It's rainy outside and cool enough to require a warm snuggly blanket. All of your favorite shows are always on. It's a place where you can cry in peace. You are free to be simply sad, weird and insane. Feel free to visit Sandwaby whenever you need to. There's plenty of chocolate and wine. The one good thing about Sandwaby is that, there is a door to get out. The door is hope. When you are ready to grasp on to hope, you simply walk through the door. SANDHABY: (Sick And Having A Baby). Sandhaby is for those who made it past Sandwaby and are now preggers! Although, they are sick and bigger by the month :)

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

CONGRATULATIONS!!!

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

oh my goodness, i was so excited for you, MRS.HATH that i wrote CONGRATULATIONS and clicked "submit" without realizing what i was doing, haha. this is such wonderful news and i love it! i am so happy for you and all our other preggers here. baby dust the rest of us in sandwaby so we can join you all. and where the hell did you send af, she hasn't arrived for me! in any case, been slacking at work already so need to get back, will be checking in later. congrats again, hun! will continue to keep you all in my prayers!

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

ok, i have to say 1 more thing. i went to my primary care dr yesterday (i twisted my ankle badly in december and it still hurts i finally went to get it checked). i told her about my mc and she said she could relate and told me about her 2 mc. i asked her if she had any kids and she said no, she's been trying for a while. i felt terrible for her and scared for myself. does this happen to anyone else? but anyway, then just now i saw MRS.HATH's good news and got super duper happy for her and i think in the back of my head i also felt hope for myself. ok, thought i should share this useless information, haha.

 

Shabnam - March 13

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. CONGRATULATIONS MRS.HATH!!!! Welcome to Sandhaby! This is your new home, hopefully for the next 9-10 months!!! Judi, will you be jointing us soon??? Did you also send AF away??? Let it rain babydust in Sandwaby!!!

 

nannydjc - March 13

Mrs. Hath................. CONGRATULATIONS! I am so excited for you............. By the way you had me laughin all day yesterday with those comments.

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

SHABNAM - i am still waiting for my first af after the d&e... so frustrated and getting impatient. can i do anything to expedite the process? jumping jacks or something? i want to join you guys as soon as i can but dr said to wait 2 cycles and dh will not have it any other way! it's probably the best to wait, so i am trying to catch up to BRYANDI who is ahead of me by both cycles. BRYANDI - stop being so d__n selfish and send me some af soon!!! please, i am desperate to get pg again and can't w/o completing 2 cycles!!!

 

jstaley1228 - March 13

Oh, Mrs. Hath...I'm so happy for you. That is just wonderful. Girlies, I got AF this morning. I think this will be my last post. I've lost all my cycle buddies and think I need to stop posting for a while. My head and heart on not in the best of places. The self-pity is a little to over-whelming right now. I know this probably sounds really cowardly and I'm sorry. Thank you girls for the help the last few months. I really appreciate y ou all being there and Mrs. Hath your gonna be the best mommy! So happy for you. Take care ladies, Miss BFP, Sarah9, Smmom, Col, Clauds, Larsoe, Cynna and all the new girls. Best wishes and good luck. Jill

 

Mrs.Hath - March 13

JUDI: It's really funny that you mention jumping jacks. For me, I swear to you that I "brought" AF on by doing vigoursious exercise. I've done this after both m/c. I found that I got AF after running. I know it sounds weird, but I had those AF symptoms for WEEKS without getting it. Then I finally got back in the gym and started doing a lot of cardio. Sure enough, AF came in the next 2 days both times. Not sure if it will work fo you, but I know it did for me. JILL- I would have done the exact same thing. I'm telling you- preseed, baby aspirin and B6. It works. Come back when you are preggers. We'll keep a place open in Sandhaby. And, if I have a chemical again, I'll be right with you. I know how d__n hard it is. It's the worst feeling in the world. I know it took a lot of strength to geniunely be happy for me. Trust me. I will keep praying for you. Get yourself the above things and get your b___t back here. NANNY, SHAB: Thanks girls. Just pray that I keep my little bean safe so I can move on to the next stage of worrying. I have to remain pregnant. I hope it's not a chemical. That's the bad part about testing at 11DPO. Even though I'm already on CD33 (2 days past AF due date), I'm still way early. I barely have enough time in my LP to sustain implantation. In fact, if I ovulated even 12 hours later than I thought, this baby won't have a chance at all to implant. I must get positive HPKs for a few more days before I can breath.

 

lisamc - March 13

MRS.HATH!!! CONGRATULATIONS GIRL!!! I am so excited for you... that preseed must work wonders huh? :0) We have had quite a bit of great news on this board lately. Here's wishing you a healthy, happy 9 months!!!! Lisa...

 

Shabnam - March 13

JStaley, sweetie, there is nothing cowardly about removing yourself from a situation that you are not happy in. I did the same thing. I am sure you and i are not the only ones. Just know that if ever you need, we are all still here for you. I'll keep saying my little prayers for you and you mom. Thank you for everything and come back to visit anytime. Like Mrs. Hath said, theres a place waiting for you in Sandhaby.

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

JSTALEY - i don't know if you'll be back to read this, but i hope you feel better and i think we all understand how you feel. hopefully you'll have good news to share with us soon, be sure to come back and let us know. you are in my thoughts and prayers. ((hug))

 

jstaley1228 - March 13

Dang, girls...see!? That is what I mean. Only you wonderful women could put up with a self-pitying idiot like myself with such loving understanding. Thank you again and I'll be back! Whether it's with good news or at least a better outlook. Until then, keep my place here warm as my thoughts of you all will be. Jill

 

Judi Sarah - March 13

where are all the other ladies today? all you pregnant women, please don't leave me! i know you will move on to other threads where you can relate to people, but please talk to me too every so often. you have helped keep me sane and i am not ready to have you guys leave. you have been there from the very moment i needed to vent and i appreciate your posts even if you're not talking to me in them. plus you give me a lot of hope. i want to join you in sandhaby soon but i won't know the way if you all leave me in sandwaby!

 

MissP - March 13

Woooooooooooohoooooooooooo woohooo!!

 

MissP - March 13

That was a big woohoo for Mrs Hath - in case you didnt figure it out hehe. Well done girl! I told you the aspirin was a good idea!! Its certainly working for me so far. Yes, keep taking it, theres a few opinions out there for how long, but it seems to do the trick and i for one (unless my docs in the uk say otherwise - when i get there) will take it up to 8 months i think. Im soooo chuffed for you!! Welcome to sandhaby a place of general anxiety and worry but occasional moments of extreme joy also. So your on cd33 - but not - if you ovulate late. When do you plan a trip to the doctors?? Yey!!

 

MissP - March 13

I think sandhaby will need an extension - i can see there are not enough seats around the juice bar!!! Judisarah - dont fret love we aint leaving. Im still not out of the woods yet. Im 10wks4days and i still have a few weeks to go before i can feel safe that nothings happening with this little bean!! Even then i get more conversation out of you guys than i do on the October moms board. Not sure about any of your experiences but sometimes preg moms are very self obsessed and just post about themselves, therefore they are not really much help when you need rea__surance / advice or just to complain!! Whereas women whove experienced a loss are so much more sympathetic and willing to listen and help. Hope i dont offend anyone by saying that, its just an observation!! Dont worry judisarah we will get you thru your 2 cycles and then you can join us asap in trying for another little bean. Dont feel like you are on your own because you so not. Jstaley!!! What do you mean your leaving!! I wont have it!! Dont think you can go and hide away in a corner somewhere because we still need you here and you need us. Regardless what stage of pregnancy we are at -after a loss - ttc - 2ww - 1st tri - 2nd tri etc etc, we are all still here in support of each other. I really dont want you to go and it makes me feel guilty that i may be partly the cause of you feeling so sad. You have just as much right to post here as anyone and we dont want you to go!! But of corse if you really really need the space take as much as you need and come back when your ready. But not too long ok!! We love you!! xx

 

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