WHAT NOW

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Mandy1984 - April 24

Ok yet ANOTHER question, I am 16+1 weeeks pregnant and its only now I am starting to relax a little more and believe that everything will be ok, My problem is: I had a m/c in June 05 where I lost a boy at 18.5weeks, He was cremated 10 days later on the 10th June and i kept his ashes. I was susposed to bury them and we had bought a little plot in the 'Belfast babies Garden of Remberence' but at the last minute I changed my mind as I just could not bear to let them go...At the time it was awful as my whole family were at the church and I just didn't show up. Anyways, I have 2 daughters and another baby on the way and so far I have always kept the ashes in the 4th bedroom which will be the new baby's room when born... I am really lost as to what to do with them, I have decided that I NO longer want them in the house, I have other things, a little plaque, a candle that I got his picture lasered on to, and a little Angel, I have them packed into a plastic container at the minute but don't know what to do, Then I feel guilty for not wanting them, Even looking at his picture really annoys me, A mixture of emotions come flooding all at once, I was thinking of asking my granny if she could even keep the ashes and that for me, but I wouldn't want her to feel like I was puting her on the spot and then she say YES only because she felt she has to, What would you or what did some of you do?

 

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