Why Is This Happening

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Amanda - April 19

hi everyone, I just had a miscarriage yesterday at 8 weeks. this was my first pregnancy. it is so hard to except that my little one passed away. im so miserable. i was getting used to the fact that i was going to be a mommy and my whole family and bf were very excited and happy thats all they ever talked about. but for some reason i want to get pregnant again, i want a baby so bad which i know that i should even have a baby yet because im 17. the pregnancy was unplanned. but now i would give anything to have a baby and i dont know how to cope with this im deffinately not going to try for another one anytime soon but its so hard to except this.can anybody please give me some advice i dont know what to do.....

 

Amanda - April 19

*shouldn't

 

Amanda - April 19

anybody?

 

MJM - April 19

Hi Amanda, I am very sorry for your loss. It is very hard to accept that the baby is not living and growing inside of you anymore. But, I promise is does get better. I had a miscarriage in March. I have good days and horrible days. And what you are feeling is perfectly natural. I have found more support from this website than I have from anyone. A person can have all of the sympathy in the world...but unless they have been through it themselves, they do not understand. Just be sure and get lots of rest. It is very hard on your body and your spirit to go through the miscarriage process. I will be sure and remember you in my prayers. Best Wishes.

 

Amanda - April 19

thank you MJM its good to talk to somebody that can relate to me. i guess everything happens for a reason and god would not give us what we can't handle. thanks again

 

staci - April 19

amanda-so sorry for your loss. this website has helped me so much, I m/c in March with my first pg. noone will understand unless they have been there before, dont let others tell you how to feel or what to do to get through this, only you know what is best for you, take care of yourself, each day does get better, I PROMISE. you will have ups and downs but time does help to heal. my doctor said that a m/c is your bodys way/natures way of taking care of your child and letting them go b/c there would've been problems. take care, talk here anytime!

 

Amanda - April 19

thank you soo much that helped alot. god bless both of you! I didn't know who to turn to because everybody just told me it would be ok thats not much help they just don't understand but you girls do. thanks again.

 

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