I Want Another Baby And My Partner Doesn T

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JO11 - December 20

I have a 21mth old with my partner of 12yrs, I have two other children (grown) 19yrs nd 14yrs. (massive gap i know) I really want another little one but my partner has a had a vasectomy, he had this after my baby was born, it wasn't up for discussion, he just arranged it. I feel quite sad about this as i would love another nd feel my family is not yet complete, i would love my partner to have a reversal but don't think he will, he's 47 I', 43, he thinks he is too old, i don't think we are. I love my partner, but really wnt another, really sad, but he would say I have 3 great kids, how can i convince him :))

 

orangelady - January 5

Not sure you can convince him, you are both two separate people with different opinions. You can however, discuss with him why you want a baby instead of focusing on why he doesn't. Tell him your feelings. My husband and I (I was 46 at the time and he was 55) accidentally conceived twins last year, now two healthy little baby girls, on top of the 9 year old and 14 year old boys we already had had together. Age is not very important in my eyes. When you are ready it happens, and that might happen later in life. If you feel your family is not complete, tell him that.

 

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