Anyone Else Want To Kill Their Mothers

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HannahBaby - May 17

Venting time ladies!! I have an ultrasound coming up next week and i scheduled it then because my mother in law will be here on vacation to visit us from NC and thought that it would mean alot to her to see the Ultrasound. So of course i invited my mother too (didnt want to hurt feelings) but she just called me and told me that she invited my grandmother to the ultrasound!! I told her that she has to call her back and tell her that she cant come and my mom got all mad at me when i really just want to tell her that i wasnt even going to invite her but felt that i had to. Then shes like well your grandmother can go in my place, and im like "NO you have to call her and tell her no" My mother invited my grandmother to be in the delivery room with out even asking me!! Normally i wouldent care but i really want to share this moment with my mother in law and make it special for my husband...Am I wrong here?? My mom never listens to anything that i say! She smokes around my daughter (which is why she no longer watches her anymore) and does this gross thing where she licks my babies face and i yell at her and tell her not to and she does it anyway. Im so sick of my mother not listening to me and respecting my wishes. Anyone else?? Its so funny because everyone always complains about their mother in laws and mine is a saint!! I wish it was the other way around because its so much easier to tell your MIL to flip off than it is your own mother.

 

Karen_Fletcher - May 17

yeh, my mum is driving me potty to but for other reasons!!! maybe its us!! my gran and mum did my head in yesterday when i was trying on my wedding dress!! i thought they were stand offish.... maybe its the hormones or maybe its them who knows, but unless we want to start world war 3 i think we gota grin and bare it!! LOL!!! sorry

 

HannahBaby - May 17

haha karen its definatly not the hormones for me!! If it was going to be just my husband and i, i wouldent care who was coming, its just that i was trying to make this day special for my husband and his mother since we only see her about twice a year. ahhhh!!

 

Karen_Fletcher - May 17

yeh, thats nice. well make sure you stand ur ground with ya mum and tell her that you only hubby in the delivery room, its your special time and i dont know how many people i would want staring at my area when im trying to push a human out!! in the UK they only let the birthing partner in anyway!! Good luck!! and keep smiling!!:o)

 

HannahBaby - May 17

well i had my mother, 2 sister in laws, and my husband in the room with me with my first. That doesnt bother me. I just wish that she didnt do that kind of stuff without asking me first y know.

 

Mandy1984 - May 17

Hey Hannahbab** Spoke b4 on previos threads :) I kinda sympathize and envy you at the same time, My mother has never really got over the fact I had my first daughter so young, In her eyes I disgraced the family name and th efact I was asked to leave my Private Grammar school didn't really help either, I'm now 22 and its only really now we have started to talk again, My dad on the other hand is the complete opposite!! He likes to know EVERYTHING that goes on with me :) He is more like my mum! My MIL lives about a 15minute drive from my house and has NEVER once came to visit the kids (Shannon-5yrs Bethany2yrs)

 

ThePezChick - May 17

Man Hannah, sorry to hear about your troubles. I'd stand my ground too and tell my mom that my grandmother couldn't be there. (Well, not my mom as I'm lucky enough to have an awesome relationship with her.) Tell her this is a special moment and you thought it would be a special moment for you guys to share... okay you'd be lying a little but maybe it will hit her in the heart.

 

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