Question About Sex

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Kime - February 28

Hey girl's i have a quick question. Here lately i haven't been having s_x as mich with my fiance. But honestly i just feel so goofy when we try. Im almost 6 moths and my stomach is pretty big b/c im soooo tiny. It just seems as if there aren't any positions that we can do. I can't lay on my back, it hurts when im on top, and it just feels weird when we do it from behind. The only way we can do it is on the side and im not big fan of that position. Is anyone else having this problem or am i just being complicated. I feel so bad for him though b/c now he has actually started to m____ee( sry if tmi) and he NEVER used to do that. Im worried that he might not find me attractive anymore if i don't give it up more. Is just laying there together not enough?

 

excited2bemama - February 28

Hmm- The best position for me is if I lay on my back. I think its fine to lay on your back for s_x- you just aren't supposed to lay on your back for hours- although I do sleep on my back for some part of every night.

 

aliciavr6 - February 28

I'm in the same position as you, so to speak, and I found on top was the best way. I HATE laying on my side with him behind me. Or, on top but facing the other way is okay too. I don't even worry about myself anymore, because it doesn't feel the same, it's really hard for me to get into it for the past few months.

 

aliciavr6 - February 28

Oh yeah, I sleep on my back too sometimes. I def wouldn't worry about that.

 

Kime - February 28

thanks alicia- ya i try to do it on my back to, btu i don't know maybes_x just won't feel the same for me anymore. It just feels like there is alot of pressure down there if we do it missionary. And also it takes him so long to get off which makes it even worse. Lord now is the time i wish he was a minute man lol!!!!

 

c_baer19 - February 28

The 'spooning' position, lying on your side, is not too bad. Being on top gives you more control, so if it hurts when it goes too far, you can stop that. I don't have any magical positions for you though, sorry, lol. =)

 

AshleyandAverysmom - February 28

Well Top works best for me..even though I was a back girl before I was pregnant. Are you guys working up to the big moment or just diving in ( forgive the pun). I'm alsi 6 mths along. Also maybe try some lubricant , it might help him go faster too!

 

babymakes5 - February 28

I'm about 5 months and we still have s_x quite a bit. I still lay on my back, but instead of laying down on me, he stays on his knees and just holds on to my thighs with his hands (sorry if TMI-just trying to give a position idea), otherwise I don't like it on top, but I do like it from behind-but lately that's been hurting too much. And there's always oral? Or a handjob, we do those too :) I also end up rolling on my back when I'm sleeping and it seems to be fine for short periods of time. Good luck, but I would definitely talk to him about it. Maybe he takes awhile because he's been masturbating? I know my dh takes awhile when he's had a couple of drinks too-used to like that, but I agree that quicker is better these days. Even on my back, I can't hold my legs for too long anymore-lol. Good luck.

 

aliciavr6 - February 28

The spooning one is the one I hate, before I got preg too. I don't know why. I'd rather never do it haha. It def doesnt feel the same for me anymore, not that it's painful, it just seems boring. :( I think it's all mental though, for me anyway.

 

c_baer19 - February 28

LOL babymakes5, my DH was like that when he had a couple drinks too, and I used to like it, but now I agree, quicker is usually better. Kime, try some lubricant, honestly although they say preggos usually produce more, it seems like I am producing even less sometimes, and sometimes if we don't use any, it is a little painful.

 

excited2bemama - February 28

Alicia- I hate the spooning position too- just doesn't work well for me... and yeah I am with the rest of you- S_x isn't that great right now- The first trimester I couldn't get enough but now it just feels to swollen down there.....

 

MNMOM - February 28

I am also about 6 months and haven't really enjoyed s_x as much. I don't feel very s_xy with a big belly! I enjoy the closeness, but definitely don't reach climax as I used to. We still do missionary with him on top, but he doesn't lay all the way down, that's too much pressure on the belly and it hurts. So, our position is pretty much the same as babymakes5 described :)

 

ChattyKathy - March 1

What about standing up? Thats a fave for me right now as everything else feels too uncomfortable. Either that or we do side-to-side except I lean towards him a little bit so I'm kind of half on top and half on the side. Know what I'm saying? You could also try sitting on the edge of a surface like a counter or table while he stands up. Its really easy for me to go completely dry or sore, too, so if it takes too much effort to get things going I don't even bother.

 

Shannon - March 1

i found that one top could be almost uncomfy when pregnant, mostly near the end. laying on my back with dh not, um, leaning on me as much worked best if ya know what i mean. have your hubby be on his knees and put a pillow under your b___t or have him hold you up.

 

Kime - March 1

O believe me, we have lubricant. Im telling you my fiance is a nympho, and i was to b4 i got pregnant. So we know all the positions to try, we even have those karma sutra books lol. We used to go crazy with each other, but now it's just a little harder. And i don't think a quicky is worth it if we do something to harm our baby. O and also he's always been an over achiever never a minute man(tmi) so ya i guess that's out of the park. My problem isn't that we don't know any positions, my question to everyone was just R u guys experiencing the same thing as i am where it's just a ha__sle to even try lately, b/c of your belly.

 

c_baer19 - March 1

Lol Kime, don't be afraid that you're going to hurt your baby - you won't. =)

 

Kime - March 1

wow thanks c_bear im glad to know that i can't hurt my baby by havign s_x in the wrong position. Even though i have leaked b4 after s_x im happy to know that it wasn't anything serious. lol

 

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