Really Upset

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seanandmya - January 29

My uncle died a few months ago , don't really want to go into details . Me and my sis were closer to him than his own siblings because my grandmother and my mother got pregnant around the same time so we were more like his sisters , anyway I asked my dh if he would conseder naming the baby Wayne if it is a boy , it's something I really wanted to do . He said he'd think about it so I let two weeks go by before i asked him his decision . He said that he doesn't like the name and wouldn't like to call his son that for the rest of his life , and that was the end of the discussion . Dh never knew Wayne so I don't think it's anything deeper than he just doesn't like the name ! I suppose I could use it for a middle name , there's no problem there . I was just dissappointed in the way he handled it , he could have been a bit more sensitive . I'm just ranting at this stage , prob not making any sense ! oh well , thanks for the ear .

 

mrs.vegas - January 29

well, i don't think you're ranting at all! (i'm very emotional right now, so i appologize in advance if this comes out a bit angry) i can understand your husband not wanting to name your son that because he doesn't like the name, but i agree that he could have handled it a little better! obviously he knows how close you and your uncle were, and that this would be a touchy subject for you. i don't think men understand women at all!! pregnant or not! i'm just mad at my husband right now.... but if your husband agrees for the middle name, then i would go with that. i'm sure it has nothing to do with your uncle, probably just the name. maybe he knew someone in highschool named wayne that he didn't get a long with! my husband mentioned a name he liked, and it just so happened to be the name of a girl i dispised in highschool. i know its hard to not be upset, but don't take it personal!

 

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