Stressed Mommy To Be

26 Replies
Ann - October 1

I'm 19 years old...I'm 16 weeks pregnant. I have never felt so scared or alone. I have support from my mom, grandmother, and my boyfriend is right by my side and even plans on marrying me. He's gonna be a great daddy. I feel so stressed though and it seems like noone else quite understands. I am excited, but so scared something is going to go wrong that I can't be as excited as I should be. My nerves are so shot. I get so annoyed by little things like dirty dishes, my house is never clean enough... but no one wants to help clean, they're all lazy. Even the dog seems to poop on the floor just to p___s me off. LOL, sounds funny, but really... last night I got angry because someone drank the tea I had made that morning, I get angry when someone eats my food when I want it, I go shopping and if someone walks in front of me I get the urge to trip them just because they're in my way (j/k..lol), I'm just on edge about everything. I can't stand it anymore and I dont know what to do to relax... anyone feel the same way.

 

Samantha - October 2

Hey Ann!! I feel you, I'm 20 and in college and I am like you very stressed out. I do have lots of support like you do. I am getting married in December and trying to plan a wedding. So between school, planning a wedding, worrying about a baby, and being away from my family while I'm at school, I can say I'm really stressed. I know exactly how you feel. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here. Congrats on your baby!!!

 

Ann - October 2

Samantha, it's nice to hear someone understands... I never knew pregnancy was going to be this rough. Obviously this is not what I had planned for myself... but I am overwhelmed with the emotions and the strain on my body... it's crazy, but amazing at the same time!!!

 

Erin - October 2

Hey ladies, I am also 20 and a college student. I definitely wasn't planning on getting pregnant! My family lives about 5 hours away so it's hard for me to get the support I need, but luckily my husband does his best. Ann - I feel you about the dogs! I felt like my dogs would have accidents just so that I had to clean it up and smell poopy. And when my husband eats my food I go nuts! So, you are not alone. It's very stressful to have an unplanned pregnancy before you feel like you're ready, but I believe that when the baby is born things will change for me, my life will have a new purpose and it will no longer be all about me all the time.

 

Samantha - October 2

Hey, We should all keep in touch, we are all around the same age. When are you all due?

 

Erin - October 2

I'm due Feb 24th, if you want to email me it's [email protected] or I use aol instant messenger my s/n is erinkay20

 

Samantha - October 2

Hey Erin- thanks for your email and s/n. My e-mail is [email protected], my s/n is BlondeBabe857, haha it's an old s/n from like 8th grade, don't laugh. Well I look forward to keeping in touch with ya'll.

 

Samantha - October 2

P.S. I'm due April 10th

 

kendall - October 3

I am 21 and 20 weeks pregnant I am extremely stressed out with things that are going on. I don't have very much support all I have here in az is my b/f and my mom I haven't talked to my dad in 14 weeks, I am having trouble finding a job, I just got in a car accident (not my fault) and have to go to court for it and I have a very short temper as well I can't figure out how to relax with all thats going on.

 

Ann - October 3

My due date is March 15th. I think its great if we could keep in contact... my e-mail is [email protected]

 

Ann - October 3

Kendall, I hear you about the short-temper thing. Its always one thing after another, when it rains....it pours. I find myself having child-like fits.... it's amusing after the fact.... but myfuse gets pretty short...lol! I just can't wait until my baby is here... it will give me that extra drive in life.

 

Marlene - October 3

Hi I'm 19 and due march 25. I feel you ladys I'm stressed out all the time. I have support from family but still feel so alone like no body gets it!! I'm trying to work through this before i drive myself nuts.

 

Ann - October 3

Marlene, how is your pregnancy going so far, other than the stress??? Are you single? Your the first 19 year old I have met other than myself....

 

amber - October 3

hey i know how u feel to i am 22 by the way im 25 weeks pregnant, i got support from family, friends, my bf is in iraq so i dont talk to him much, but i just get upset liek soo easy today i threw my cell phone against the fireplace, cryed, threw a fit cuz my sister was calling me all these names, i just broke down it was terrible!! We can chat to if u would like im always here, wanting to chat im name is brokenangel2104, email is [email protected]

 

Ann - October 3

Amber, I know what you mean about breaking down... I do that at least once every couple days. My emotions are so strong, when I get upset..... I get UPSET!!! Sometimes I can hardly stand myself...lol. I get aggrivated because I am aggrivated.

 

Samantha - October 3

Hey girls, I went to the doctor yesterday, it went very well. I go to hear the heartbeat again which was good. I just really want to have an ultrasound but won't get to until I'm 20 weeks. Hope you are all doing well!!

 

Ann - October 3

Samantha, good to hear your appointment went well. I havent been able to hear the heartbeat yet... they tried twice now.... nothing to worry about though.... I've seen it on an ultrasound so I know its there...lol. I get my next ultrasound on the 24th.... that'll be my 20 wks... I'll find out if it has a p___s or not!!!! LOL! How far along are you???

 

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