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Kim - September 13th, 2004 8:04 AM

I have been off the pill for a year to get ready for kids. I have been ready for a long time. My husband pulls out every time we have sex. I tell him not to but he does anyway. He said If I want kids I have to convince him. That means sexually. It seems the only way I can do it is to suck his dick then he cums and we are done. So he told me for every time I "convince" He will cum in me any time I want. I dont like to blow him so I want to know when the best time to have him cum in me is so I dont have to keep blowing him? I think he is a little scared to have kids but he does want them.He just needs a little hand holding is all.

Cilla - August 24th, 2004 1:45 PM

First off, you shouldn't have to do anything you don't want to in order for him to cum inside you. If you don't like blowing him then don't and that's that. You shouldn't be wanting kids from someone that makes you do things you don't like to do.

Nicole - August 24th, 2004 3:36 PM

I'm sorry but he sounds like a's not a game...either he wants kids or he doesn't!

brucen - August 25th, 2004 10:40 AM

Must agree with the other ladies. I don't even want to mention what you doing sexual favors to get something boils down to. ESPECIALLY ones that you don't like doing! It's kind of disgusting and very degrading when you really think about. "If you give me a blow job, I will give you... a raise... a promotion ... a baby!"

Ella Bella - August 25th, 2004 10:44 PM

How old is you husband? He is acting like a child!!! Thats the one of the most ridiculous things I have ever heard of!!! Sexual favours for child.... he needs to get a grip on reality!

Angela - August 26th, 2004 4:23 PM

Does your husband want kids. Getting pregnant is not a joke and should not be made out to be one. Tell him to grow up and act like a man. Are you sure you want this man to be a father right now??????

MAREE - September 4th, 2004 10:38 AM


??? - September 7th, 2004 2:32 PM

Dose that work for you? It sounds like rape.

The answer is....... - September 7th, 2004 9:39 PM

Nope, that aint rape. When a guy gets an erection, he wants it. You technically can't rape a guy. You can't have intercourse w/o an erection unless you redefine rape.

definition of rape - September 12th, 2004 9:30 PM

at least in most states the definition of rape is forcible penetration of vagina without consent. a man does not have a vagina there for cannot be raped if anything it would be considered a sexual offense but your married

Chris - September 12th, 2004 10:07 PM

Well, first of all most of these answers sound like they're coming from women. Secondly it looks like they are trailing off on a tangent trying to define rape. Coming from a man: the real issue is "do you both want kids or not"? I agree, it is kind of silly of him to be playing "quid pro quo" with you. In an ideal world, if he "really loves you" he shouldn't force you to do something you're uncomfortable with, but in that same ideal world, if you "really love him" then you would do whatever you could to please him. The issues of felatio and conception are separate. They should be dealt with as such. First deal with the issue of whether you both really want to concieve, then deal with the issue of oral sex, possibly with a marriage counselor... In response to a previous post, DO NOT LIE to him and trick him into ejaculating into you. Relationships are built on trust. I would also like to point out that the grammer used in the post suggesting you con him was sub-standard, possibly from the hills of West Virginia?

Viv - September 12th, 2004 11:06 PM

Kim, twenty answers and not one of them on point. The best time is from day 8 to day 14 of a 28 day cycle. You ovulate 14 days before the beginning of your next period and any sperm in you from the previous few days could do the trick. Without wishing to get into the rights and wrongs of this, if he comes in your mouth and you go straight to the bathroom, spit it into your hand and wipe it well into your vagina, that could do the trick too.

4545 - September 13th, 2004 1:53 AM

Viv- out of all the good advice you have given most women, that was the most dumbest thang you could have possibly said. You said it yourself, sperm dies quickly in the air, so carrying it in your mouth, along with saliva. and then spitting it out and rubbing in on your vagina...thats not goin to do anything. Chris gave better advice than that.

Viv - September 13th, 2004 8:04 AM

Hi 4545: I have never promoted the idea that sperm dies on contact with air. I have frequently said that it dies when it dries. I have frequently said that getting sperm still wet in the vagina can impregnate. These are of course opinions, but I have tried to be consistent. Saliva is an excellent lubricant for intercourse, and if you observe the animal world, a natural one. Sperm clumps together when in another liquid, so the sperm in the middle of the clump will still be viable. Anyone want to conduct clinical trials?

Another (male) Chris - September 15th, 2004 12:28 AM

The answer is - Yes, you can rape a guy. Erections are comepletely involuntary. You can get an erection just sitting around for no reason...that doesn't mean that he wants to have sex. You are stereotyping men when you say that if they have an erection they want it. Making him have intercourse is rape if he does not want to have it/kids.

Kim - Ask him if he truly wants kids. Make sure to get a definate answer, and if he says no, you must respect that. Do not force him to have kids or else that could be considered rape.

Viv - Sperm can live for a few minutes out in open air. It can live for several days in the vagina and other warm moist places.

The answer is...... - September 16th, 2004 7:04 PM

Look here people.......I will agree erections are involuntary given the right stimulus but I doubt even with an erection and the guy really does not want to have sex I think he would be able to defend himself from having sex. I really doubt that women are willing and able to hold a man down and force him to have sex....LOL. Given the upper body strength of a man over a woman it would be a fluke for a woman to really rape him unless she were amazon and he were a midget. What is she going to do tie him down and how is she going to do that?

lisa - September 26th, 2004 10:56 PM

it takes 14 days to ovulate. Begin by counting the first day of your period and add up 14 days from that. that is when you should be ovulating. so have sex couple days before then and after.


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