I Want To Have Another Baby But My Husband Doesnt

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maindawg32 - February 11

I am new to the site. I am 34, turning 35 in September. I am an Army wife been married for almost 12 years. I have 3 children, 2 girls 11 & 7 and a boy 18 months. I told my husband I wanted us to have another baby and he has flat out said no. I had a tubal ligation after having my 2nd daughter then had it reversed 5 years later and had our son. I would love to have another little one. I think of the age difference between my 7 year old and 18 month old and feel like when she is a teenager he will be all alone. I dont nag him about it but my feelings are hurt that he feels this way. I am honoring his wishes of course because I only want a baby if he wants one too. He was supposed to have a vasectomy after our son was born and claims he has no time to get it done, and so I have been on BCP ever since. Another thing to throw into all of this is that in October I found out he had been unfaithful to me while in Ft Jackson SC in May while attending a school there. We still love each other and are working through things. Would appreciate any advice, support anyone may have for me.

 

kellyloveslucas - February 12

Well being unfaithful just shows he does not respect you or your wishes. and It shows how much you love him to work through it. If you are uterly down about having another child, do what your heart say and not what he says, he didn't think about your feelings remember that, also ask what your kids think too about another child too.

 

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