One Night Stand Tales

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Ceno - April 6

If you became pregnant through a one night stand, HOW did you tell the expecting father and WHEN did you tell the expecting father?

 

magenta_heart - April 23

Sorry that nobody answered this post. I am a man myself and I have had hundreds of one night stands. Fortunately the only girl that I have ever gotten pregnant is my current girlfriend. I think that no matter how you tell this guy he is going to have a bomb go off in his head when he hears the news. If I were you, I would say something like, "I THINK I'm pregnant." They key word being "think". Even if you know for sure, you should ease into this kind of topic by casting some doubt. That will be lesson the bomb impact. Then tell him you're going to go get checked for sure. During this time he will have some time to digest this new idea, yet it won't be so intense because it is a "maybe" situation. Then get back to him in the near future and tell him the results are definite. This process will definitely ease him into the idea of having gotten you pregnant/having a baby. Another thing I would expect is that even after you tell him he may highly doubt that it is he who is the father. Because you slept with him so easily he will logically think that you sleep with any guy easily and thus will have an out by saying, "Well, for all I know you could have been with some other guys the nights before or after we had s_x." Sorry, I don't know your specific situation and I am not at all trying to make you feel bad - but this is just a guys thinking. I hope what I have sad can help you in some way. Ryan

 

HannahBaby - May 29

ew you sound proud to have hundreds of one night stands....thats nasty

 

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