Sexual Desire

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Missy - March 20

I knew that my body would change as the weeks go by, and I love my husband, and he tells me he loves me. I feel like I want him to reassure me even more now that I am beautiful, and that I am desireable, and, well he does not, excessively like I want him to. I do not feel s_xy, althouh he insists that I am. Therefore I do not feel desireable, and although I want to show and give him the intimacy that he deserves-lately I can not, because I feel like a fool, I feel embaressed about my growing belly, and I do not feel s_xy or like being intimate with him. i basically push him away, and during the day when we are apart I feel like crying because I know he feels that I do not want him...I have tried to express my feelings, and apologize, but that still does not make up for anything, because that same night I do it again. I've always been proud of my appearance, but we wanted this second child, and we are blessed, but how can I overcome, or help myself with these negative selg images, and lack of confidence when being intimate with my husband? Or maybe the statement "lack of self confidence" is completely false, and i sincerely just have a lack of desire for s_x these days.

 

Evonna - April 3

You could be suffering from serious depression. You feel happy that you had your first child and your happy for the second, but just feel like somethings missing. If you know your beautiful and he knows your beautiful then leave it as that. Being pregnant and having children is a wonderful thing and some reason pregnancy can make you feel incomplete, vulnerable, less desireable, & just plain unhappy. Don't put your feelings on your husband. But talk to him about your feelings instead. Girl everything will be alright, just get some full rest.

 

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