19 Engaged Possibly Preg Need Advise

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jenn - August 10

i'm 19 years old ( be 20 in oct.) ,, my fience' is 22 and i love him to death , he has been there for me ever since i moved here and met him . after going out for 4 months he poped the question i did not hesitate to say yes , becuase we have both been engaged before i was engaged for 2 years at age 16..... anyways.... we had , had proctective s_x until 3-4 months ago. He would always pull out when he would c_m and then we would take a shower after... but about a month ago he asked if he wanted to go inside me and i said yes. well after i was like omg i can't bevelive i said yes ( and no he did not pressure me at all he never does) , so a few weeks after i took my test came out negative. first problem , i have never had a regular period , becuase i'm overwieght for my age so sometimes i have it regular for 4 months and then i don't for 3 months in a row. Its been like this ever since i was 14. I have never been able to keep track so how can i find out when my next period is? second , he smokes pot , but hasn't for the past 4 months , becuase i don't like it , i used to do it too a year ago , but ever since i've moved i relised it isn't my thing. anywho... i have a fulltime job and i am well prepared to have a child , but my grandmother told me i'm next in line to have twins ( boys) , my aunt has twins ( boy and girl) , and they are such a hassal , spec now that there at the terrible twos! but we all love them to death. but anyways for the past 4 weeks i've had s_x prob about 6 days out of those 4 week period and 4 out of the 6 he has gone inside me , but right after we're done i pee ... question - does peeing right after having s_x risk t or lower the chance of me getting preg.? also my father hates my fenice' , and he also doesn't know that im' engaged to him. His parents do and are suporting us , but we're not planning on getting married until a year or 2 from now. but my main question again is , how do i know when to take a preg. test , when i never know when my last period was or if its coming again? and until at my own place , or move in with my fience's parents house , my father watches me like a halk and calls me every 10 mins to find out where i am. my father is an alcholic , and is very controling , he hates all my guy friends and my future husband that he doesn't know about. if i am preg i know the baby might bring us together , like the twins did with my whole family , but again until i leave my fathers house , i can't go to the doctors becuase i'm under his health plan. any advise for anything will be accepted , again thankz

 

Nicole - August 10

Hi! What day do you think you may have conceived? I will look it up for you and let you know the best time to test ok...btw, peeing right afterwards lowers the chance of pregnancy.. laying for 10-15 mins. without moving increases the chance of getting pregnant...I think having twins would be a ha__sle, but look at it this way you get two at one time!! (you don't have to go through labor twice..lol) also, 19 is old enough to have your own privacy and relationships...in my opinion.. Well, let me know the dates you may have conceived and i'll let you know when the best time to test is...ok

 

jenn - August 10

i think if i can remember correctly , the last day i had my period , was july 8 or around july 4th because i remember haveing to ask my feince's mother if she had any tampons , becuase i needed one before the fireworks lol

 

Nicole - August 10

have you taken an hpt?

 

jenn - August 10

no i haven't been able to get one , i prob will sometime next week when i have money. in the past 6 months , i've taken 3 preg test just to be sure , but i haven't been able to get any since then but i will have some extra money next week and get 2

 

Tiffany - August 10

Im 18, and engaged, and i also think im pregnant. Why dont u ask ur Feince to go get u some test..Also u could go to a Free Clinic and they will give u a pregnancy test. Im just like u, im a lil over weight and my periods dont come normal..so if u get some answers to that Email me: [email protected] and good luck.

 

to jenn - August 10

You could always go to a health care center, they do pregnancy test for free and won't tell anyone if you don't want them too.Also it dosen't matter if you are on you fathers plan or not they won't ask that. Another fact, if you smoke pot, I know you haven't for a while, but anyway, it will screw up you periods like you have described. It sounds to me like you need to get out of you fathers house asap. Also, going pee after s_x will lower your chance, but not by much, it's a very small percentage as well as the shower thing. Good luck to you!

 

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