MOMS2B Part 7

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staci - January 11

Ok girls, here's to more bfp's and finding out the s_x of our mommies babies!! (sorry, it's killing me to know!) Love you all!

 

staci - January 11

Hope you all don't mind me starting another thread! The other was literally taking 2 minutes to load up!

 

soimpatient - January 11

Oh Staci, honey, I'm so sorry about your friend. I know how frustrating and heartbreaking it can be to find out that someone is pregnant without even really having to "try". It is also upsetting that she didn't even tell you in person! But, try to keep in mind that I'm sure that your friend didn't mean to hurt you. If she knows that you guys are having problems she probably didn't know how to tell you and she chickened out and sent you an email. I'm not excusing her immature behaviour (I hate it when ppl use email to discuss important issues) but she probably decided to take the easy way out. As for how to deal with the issue, you might want to tell her how you are feeling...ie: hurt that she didn't tell you in person, esp. since you have been friends forever and since it is a touchy issue for you. Staci, I know that there really isn't anything that can make this any easier but I am praying really hard that you get your bfp in a few days. Kind of off topic but, have you seen your doc lately? What were his plans or suggestions for you the last time you saw him? Was it to do more testing? Sorry, I have a HORRIBLE memory. Girl, we love you and we hope that you feel better soon. Let yourself cry and be p__sed off but remember God is with you. We all know it, but sometimes when I'm feeling down reading this makes me feel better: One night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonging to him, and the other to the LORD. When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of his life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in his life. This really bothered him and he questioned the LORD about it: "LORD, you said that once I decided to follow you, you'd walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don't understand why when I needed you most you would leave me." The LORD replied: "My son, my precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of trial and suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

 

staci - January 11

Angela thank you so much! That means so much and actually let me cry. I just couldn't cry, it's been building and building since i found out. I am very lucky to have you(and the rest of you ladies) in my life. gosh, i can't stop crying now! But i do feel better, weird huh? Thank you Thank you!

 

soimpatient - January 11

Good girl! Let it out! Actually I cried too when I re-read my post. It is such a beautiful pa__sage and it reminds us that God IS always with us. ***HUGS***

 

Michelle_in_PDX - January 11

Angela, thank you for sharing that beautiful pa__sage! Staci I am so sorry that you are going through a tough time--just know that God loves you and we love you and are thinking of you and praying for you! 2007 will be our (everyon'es) year!

 

staci - January 11

HERE HERE! LET 2007 BE OUR YEAR!!

 

staci - January 11

hey, i'm a poet and didn't know it!! thank yo u also michelle! you both are so sweet!

 

Kelly11 - January 11

Hey! Thanks for the new thread Staci!!! And thank you for being soooooooo excited with us to find out the s_x of our babies...it means a lot to mean and I'm sure to the rest of us! I am really sorry to hear about your friend and the way she went about it...I would write more about it, but truly I think God gave Angela the words for this dilema and I'm just going to leave it at that. I'll just say amen to what she said and of course I pray that you see a bfp in the next few days!!! Okay and who was it that was having an issue with a best friend cheating on a family member not too long ago? Or am I completely thinking about a dream I had??? That wasn't you Staci was it? Because if it was, they say it comes in three's and hopefully that was number three and now you're just going to be seeing nothing but positivity around you! : ) OKAY ladies it's 5pm my time, that means it's only 15 short more hours until the ultrasound!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe it's almost here. I swear I'm more excited for this than I ever have been for anything in my entire life. It's the weirdest thing!!! Plus we got our crib today and set it up in our spare bedroom (even though we're hoping to move soon) just so I can look at it! Angela you're feeling it might be a boy for me huh? Well I'd be happy with a little Hudson just as much as I would be with a little Lola...so it's win-win. I know God is giving us exactly what is best and that's all I need to know. Michelle how are you doing? Did you ever detect your surge or have to take the trigger? And if so, what dpo are you on now? SO if I remember correctly Staci will be testing first, then Tonia, then Michelle and then Beks??? I'm trying to keep it all in order and really hoping I didn't forget anybody! Okay well everybody enjoy McDreamy tonight! I'm pretty sure it's a new one...but since me, tonia and michelle are behind you other girls...don't tell us too soon what happens : ) I saw a preview and it looks like Alex and Addison kiss?!??! Oh I hope not! I just can't wait for the new one...and then Sunday night the new season of 24 starts!!!!!!!! YEEHA! I'm such a tv addict : ) Well girls, I'm going to find a computer after my ultrasound and post to you all as soon as I can! And I am pretty darn sure it won't be midnight ; ) Love all of you and I hope you're having great nights!!!

 

Kelly11 - January 11

And Staci...your poem cracked me up! 2007 is going to be your year!!!! : ) Silly girls...what would I do without all of you??

 

staci - January 11

KELLY! wooohooo can't wait girl! I'm ancy for ya! Thanks for the kind words also. And nope it wasn't me who had the family member friend cheating dilema. Well, i'm really worn out, gonna take a hot bath, it's soooo cold! Talk to you tomorrow!

 

soimpatient - January 12

Goodmorning! OMG Kelly I am so excited for you. Since I think that you are having a boy it is probably a girl since I'm always wrong;) You'll have to make sure that you post ASAP! I mean, I won't be able to take waiting any longer. So you're appointment is at 8am your time which (I think) is 11am my time...which means that you should be home by noon or so??? This is so exciting. I feel the exact same way as you...I really don't care whether it is a boy or a girl. When I think about a girl I get excited and when I Think about a boy I get excited. Oh and it was me who had the friend who cheated on dh's cousin. They broke up but he doesn't know about the cheating. I just can't stand cheating...I just don't understand how someone can let it get THAT far. I really hope that she didn't get pg from that affair...I mean, I know she is on bcp but still, it can happen. Anyway, Kelly, I'll be thinking about you at 11am and I will be anxiously awaiting your post.

 

ma2aiden - January 12

good morning - gots lots to look forward to today :) kelly - can't wait to read your post!!!!!! staci - thanks for starting a new thread - and so sorry to hear about your friends email... like angela said, i'm sure she didn't mean to hurt your feelings and probably thought she was taking the easy way out, but i def think that you should mention to her (esp if you're that close and for that long) that you are very hurt that she didn't choose to tell you in person, esp since you spoke to her the night before... let her know that it would've hurt, but not as much and that regardless of how you're feeling, you're still happy for her... i know that when i found out i was pg this time around i had the same situation - someone i work w/ had to deliver a stillborn baby at 34wks - awful situation!!! and i was soooo nervous telling her, but i waiting til the time was right, pulled her aside in privacy and told her - we both cried, i'm sure it killed her, but i had to respect her feelings regardless of the outcome.... i hope that you can feel comfortable telling her so that you can feel better about how you're feeling - you're totally justified to feel how you are feeling....... besides, you're testing soon and hopefully you'll have your very own BFP!!! angela - how are you feeling???? anna - congrats on the shot count down, hopefully this round does the trick! becca - soooo excited for you that things are looking up for you & dh - that is awesome that you guys have found the help/counseling that you want/need... everyone has been there in one form or another and i give you a TON of credit for taking control of your life :) PLEASE come back to visit more often - we MISS YOU!!! well off to go thru ds's things - they're all out of order as far as sizes, etc... want to make sure they're all together and to see what i have/need - neutral, etc.. kelly - PLEASE post asap!!! :)

 

soimpatient - January 12

OMG Kelly! I have b___terflies in my stomach...I'm so anxious...boy or girl??? Daina, I'm feeling pretty darn good. No complaints...of course there are little things but no problems. I am 12.5 weeks and I am almost in the second tri so things are looking up for me. Daina, I can't imagine how hard it was to tell your friend who had a stillborn that your were pg but you definitely did the right thing. I just pray that none of us have to go through such a tragedy. I can't even imagine...

 

soimpatient - January 12

Oh no!! Kelly, I have to go back to work now!!! I hope that your u/s went well and I'll be back on ASAP!!

 

Michelle_in_PDX - January 12

Hi ladies! Kelly, please post asap! I'm so excited to hear your news! One of my friends (well, the wife of DH's friend) just gave birth on Sunday--she broke her tailborn during the delivery! Can you imagine? How awful! She was trying when I was trying, but she wasn't even really TTC--she was supposed to get acid reflux surgery--I remember being so sad when I heard they got pg on accident. But I am happy now for them. There should be enough BFPs for everyone!

 

javidsgirl - January 12

kelly we are waiting where are you girl?

 

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