Oh My God Am Going Off The Head

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Emma. - March 7

Dear All - I am really getting a bit naffed off at this whole TTC lark - I build up my hopes, feel all the sympoms, and then regular as you like, AF comes along. Now in fairness we havent been trying that long (this is 3rd month) but this month I definitely feel it.....my nipples are ready to explode off my body - when DH accidentally brushed them with his arm the other night he almost needed new teeth, I am a nasty backache, and yesterday afternoon I felt the funniest little twitch in my abdomen - of course convinced myself it was the fertilised egg rushing at the wall of my uterus at 80kmph to implant, but fear I am now actually going mental. I am due AF on about the 11th, and ovulation was about the 28 Feb.....took a test this morning - sadly not a NASA produced super sesitive one, but a local $1 wee on the stick job which told me I am about as pregnant as President Bush.......however, being realistic, I am waiting, and slowly going mad......Help......you can be in my club too if you are also going off your head.

 

CL - March 7

I feel your pain. I am due for AF on the 13th and about to go crazy. I have very few symptoms - terrible hot flash the other night although Grandpa Viv said it wouldn't be a sign - strange cramping, but I have cysts and they often bother me. So I am thinking that is what it is except the pain isn't in the eaxct same spot.. I am tired of waiting and I want to know - I am pretty convinced that I am not pregnant.

 

J - March 7

I took a blood test on Thursday at my OBGYN because she insisted. I usually have a 34-41 day cycle. Technically I am suppose to get my period this week (back on 41 days). I ovulated on the 18th of Feb. No AF yet, but I have the b___b pain, the cramping, the back pain. All these could also mean PMS though. I have to call the doctor today to get the results, but I am scared and nervouse that she is going to say it's negative and then I'll be disappointed just waiting for AF to come. What should I do? I don't want to be one of these women who gets the negative but hopes it wrong. If it's negative I just want to accept it and go on, but I don't know if I can do that either. I am sure you all know where I am coming from.

 

CL - March 7

J - I understand. Right now I just want to cry - I want so much to be pregnant, but I don't think I am. I am in the middle - wanting it to be the AF time so I can have an answer, but not wnating an answer if it is negative.Good luck to you. I guess just try to stay positive and know that there is always next month :)

 

Jules - March 7

Hey J - please phone the doc - you'll never know until you make the call. I know how you feel - it's a nerve-wracking call to make - and try to feel as "neutral" as you can when you do call (ie : go in with an open mind and don't psyche yourself out) And, guess what - if it's negative, you can come on here and scream as loud as you want - we'll all back you up. We've all been there, done that - including yourself a few times, right? ;) So please, make the call - and let us know. Let's put it like this: you have a 50 / 50 chance of it also being a BFP! So what are you waiting for??! Make the call and PLEASE let us know. Holding BIG thumbs, toes, etc etc etc for you :)

 

j - March 7

Thanks Guys for your support. I just called. After getting the nerve to call the doctor told me it's a borderline result and they need to retest. They want me to come back tonight. She said it was leaning toward negative. What does that mean? Should I go back today? Husband says he would rather be surprised. I am so annoyed right now. Not even my blood test could put my mind at ease one way or another. I really hope I am Preggo. Baby dust to all of you.

 

CL - March 7

Go back for test - it will just drive you crazy. It will be a surprise either way. The best of luck to you. Try to stay upbeat. If its a negative - go shopping - it always helps me

 

J - March 7

CL- I plan on shopping if it's a negative. You read my mind girl.

 

emily - March 7

I´m going crazy too. I´ve found that the more you know about signs/ symptoms and everything, the more you think you´re pregnant. While I´m waiting for af EVERYTHING is a pregnancy sign. I once again got af RIGHT on time so i´m out of the waiting game. Personally, i think maybe I´m not even IN the waiting game. I don´t think I can get pregnant. It´s been 32 months now!!!! :)

 

J - March 7

Emily- Go to the doctors and have them work on you and your partner to find out the problem. My cousin and her husband tried for seven years and nothing. He had low sperm count. She finally did IVF and had a baby girl in 2000. Then in 2001 she had another girl (IVF again). She thought she would never have any natually and in 2002 she had another girl----with no help. It can happen. She had 3 little girls all in diapers. The younger 2 are almost exactly a year apart.

 

emily - March 7

J: thanks. I have been pregnant before with my boyfriend but I miscarried. It could be bad timing. And we´re both still really young anyway. I will go back to the drs for more tests. This forum is a good venting place :) baby dust to all!

 

CL - March 7

Emily - Best of luck to you - i would definitely go to the DR. I guess I shouldn't feel as frustated as I do...no real signs for me. This whole thing is such an emotional roller coaster. I want it so badly and can't stand the heartache. I also spend way too much time reading about things - My hypochondriac mind is no worried that I have PCOS. I think the constant cramping is more cysts growing as it is the same pain. This time I have had it for more days though. Well, I wish everyone luck and I positive frame of mind - we all just need to feel happy and relaxed....maybe a day at the spa......

 

felfel - March 7

it is soo frustrating, when you are waiting for any symptom to show, they come and go and trun out to be a flu, I am in the same situation, cannot do anything with my life, I don't think about anything else, it is driving me crazy, I wish I can forget about it, and just go on with my life, I have felt some symptoms last week, gas, heartburn, bit of nausea and sore b___bs, but again I have sore b___bs everymonth, then this week I am not feeling anything, and I am starting to beleive It was all just in my head...I hate that..

 

alicia - March 7

Right there with you ladies. Should be expecting somewhere between the 12-14. Think yoy'r feelimg the symptoms but then you dont know if theyr symptoms of being pregnant or just PMS...Very frustrating...Guess we can just wait it out together.*baby dust*

 

felfel - March 7

alicia, I am waiting for my period at probably the same time, Hope i don't get it, I am planning to leave the pregn test till really later, I will not be able to handle a negative , and then turns to be positive because I have done it too early, God bless and give us all the baby that we need soo much...!"£

 

CL - March 7

Glad to know I am not alone. I wish I could just wake up tomorrow and be so nauseous that I have to run to the bathroom - what a wonderful sign!! (isn't mother nature lovely?) I will be sending my thoughts to you all and hopes for a true positive. I don't know if I can make it until a week after AF. She will probably arrive on time anyway...Alicia are you having any symptoms yet?

 

alicia - March 7

Yea i think so..but again its hard to decipher between pms and pregnant...bout 2 days after i think we may have conceived ( the day i should have ovulated) I was bloated and had really bad lower back ache. Then my mood was kind of emotional, pretty snippy. Then i got the REALLY sore b___bs and nipples (they still hurt!) and my face broke out kind of early....had the like twinges down in my lower ab but they'v gone away (hopefully it jsut implanted quickly lol) Got car sick alot yesterday which was kind of wierd. Who knows...will keep everyone updated...*Baby dust*

 

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