A Question About Sex

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shaylyn - August 16

My BF and I use the pullout method but here recently im not sure if he is even pulling out. The last few times we had s_x he will ask me where I want it to go and then a few minutes later he stops and says he had it but he lost it or he almost had it and then we start again until he actually pulls out. So is it more of a problem in the bedroom or is he simply not pulling out?

 

shaylyn - August 16

BUMP!

 

Grandpa Viv - August 16

Hmm! Is he having problems maintaining an erection, or is he a master at controlling ejaculation, backing off and then getting excited again? If the latter, there is enough sperm being produced that you might as well forgo the pull-out. You will be pregnant in a few months. When a guy has a full ejaculation a woman can often feel the p___s pulsating inside her, and the erection is lost and not regained for ten to twenty minutes. There will also be a dribble of excess s____n after withdrawal. If he pulls out right before ejaculation, does he come out in a hurry and c_m on the sheets or your belly? How about giving him a hand job so that you can observe the entire process. Sorry for the graphics - something is not computing here. Does that help?

 

shaylyn - August 16

Well, When he asked the first time where I wanted it he was going to put it on my belly and i was waiting for him to put it on my belly but then he just stopped and said he almost had it and im not sure if there was excess s____n because im always really wet and drippy when he comes out anyways. but then we changed positions right after that and i would say it took him about 30 minutes before ejaculating and he put it on my belly but held it for a minute to decide where he wanted it i suppose. i think im as clueless as you are about the situation. I mean he even ejaculated right on the crease of my leg and let his p___s rest on my c___t afterwards.

 

shaylyn - August 16

i mean we havent had this problem until recently and i ask him if the s_x is working for him you know hinting around about keeping an erection and he says its great. he was soft after the supposed lose of erection but got excited again and ejaculated about 30 minutes later. What could be causing the lose of erection if he is losing it and its just not him not pulling out?

 

Naomi98 - August 17

Shaylyn, I'm not sure this is the right forum for your questions but I do think that you should consider some other form of birth control. Pull out method is pretty risky. Using b/c might also help as neither of you would be worrying about him ejaculating inside accidently.

 

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