Advice From Anyone

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lanislee - February 22

Hi. I posted earlier, but now I'm needing some more advice. I stopped bc pills in October, I had a 36 day cycle in Nov. then 35 day cycle Dec. I expected my af to come Jan. 30 or 31, but nothing. I did have my wisdom teeth out Jan. 13, so it could be just stress or could possibly be only being off bc for 3 months. Still no af and no spotting, I have had bad cramping the past week or so, but nothing else really going on, sore br___ts a little now. Just wondering if there could be a possibility of being pregnant and what anyone thinks. Wondering also if I should get a blood test this week or just wait until next week and see if I get my 2nd af. Just hoping nothing's wrong because I've never had cramps like this before. Anyone advice is appreciated.

 

MandyD - February 22

Lanislee - have you done a hpt yet?

 

lanislee - February 22

Yep, I did an hpt about a week and a half ago and it was negative. So, I'm not sure if there's not enough hormone to show up. I've heard of some people not getting a positive until they're 8 weeks along. I hate this waiting game!

 

MandyD - February 22

Yes, getting a false negative is a LOT more common than you would think. I'd wait til this weekend and test again, and if you still get a neg, make a dr appointment. I finally made one after 3 months of no AF, and she sent me for bloodwork. The worst that can happen is you get a neg blood test...just make sure they do quant_tative and not qualitative. The qualitative doesn't seem to be much more accurate than the urine test. The quant_tative, however, gives you the exact level of HCG in your body. If you were pregnant, I'd think you would get a pos urine test by now, but that's not definite. If you'd feel more comfortable (or sane LOL) waiting til you miss another period, then wait, and if you miss, go to the dr. They are there to help you and to give you answers. BABYDUST!!!***

 

lanislee - February 22

Thanks for the advice, it's not fair that we have to go through all this waiting!! haha This cramping is just really weird, I hope there's nothing wrong. thanks again!

 

MandyD - February 22

I know, the waiting sucks big time! Is it a really painful cramping? Constant?

 

lanislee - February 22

The cramping is off and on throughout the day, last night I almost cried it hurt so bad, but today just off and on cramps along with a mild backache. All the fun things about being a girl! haha

 

MandyD - February 22

Well, if you're having cramping like that...sometimes very painful...I wouldn't wait until your next missed period. Just in case something is wrong if you really are pregnant. Severe cramping (doesn't sound like what you have) can be a sign of miscarriage in some cases, not trying to worry or scare you or anything!!!!! Let me know what you decide to do...good luck!!!

 

lanislee - February 22

Thanks for the advice. I'm thinking I might go get a blood test done tomorrow and then I if that's negative I'll wait and see if I get my next cycle of af next week and if not I'll make an appointment to see a dr unless the cramping gets worse. We'll see, maybe one of these days I'll know what's going on with my body! thanks again!

 

MandyD - February 22

Okay, sounds like a good plan! Keep me posted on what you find out. Good luck again!!! I hope you are preggers, if that's what you want! : )

 

lanislee - February 22

Thanks for all the support, good luck to you in everything!

 

chriss - February 23

lanislee, you should do a test, there is a possibility that you might be pregnant.

 

.... - February 23

im not quite sure but stress does make things late and you should go see a doctor ok srry cant help much....

 

Angelina - February 23

i'm doing a report for my health cla__s and i have to ask somebody questions about haveing a child. Anyone here that can help me by answering a few questions for me? i hope so my report is due i like 2 weeks (i think) if can please let me know thank you ps my friend thinks she is pregnate i need help she has a 1 year old and her 'rents don't know about her only me her grandma and the babies dad knows. I don't know if i should tell. please help if you can in both spots

 

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