ADVICE Request From Anyone Whos Had BFP

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Sylvie - June 13

So im not sure if i shld bd every otherday after AF or temp and chart CM. Temping and all that is so stressful and focuses too much on making a baby--but I also really want this month to be my month. Any advice especially from those who've had BFP would be appreciated. Im on cd2 of a 28 day cylce. Last month i temped and checkd cervix and cm, bd'd everyday for 5 days around time of 'o' and still nothing. Please advize!!!

 

Maria - June 13

I know this advise will sound impossible for anyone who is ttc to do, but my advise is to stop ttc. My husband and I had been trying forever, after having a chemical pregnancy in April we decided that's it lets give it a break. We actually started to enjoy having s_x again, it didn't feel like just something we had to do, we wanted it again. It's like all the pressure was off us and it felt great. And guess what last week I found out that I'm pg. And this time it's for real. I'm positive that not trying anymore is the reason we succeded. I truley think the key to it is relaxing and letting mother nature take it's course. I hope this helps you. I know exactly how you feel and how frustrating ttc can be. Good luck to you!! If you have anymore questions I'd be glad to help!!

 

Sylvie - June 13

Thnx Maria. I also had a d&c in April due to blighted ovum. Im tired of making it so technical. Did you and ur dh have s_x often once you decided not to ttc?

 

Julz - June 13

Hi Sylvie. My doctor told me to bd every-other-day, not only will this increase your chances, but it also ensures that your hubby's/boyfriend's sperm count wont get too low (as it would if you were doing it every day). It worked for me. I am now 7 1/2 weeks pregnant.

 

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