AF Due Oct 17 Join Us Tuesday Part 14

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Emily - October 18

Hi everyone, time for our tuesday thread....

 

Lucy - October 18

Morning everyone. Hope you are feeling good. Well only two more days till my Drs appointment i hope this one goes a bit better.

 

Emily - October 18

Okay for those of you who haven't cought up on yesterday's thread, I went in to have my blood drawn. Not much going on there. The nurse sadi my doc would call when he got the results either that evening or the next morning. Well he didn't call last night, so I a__sume he will cal this morning. His office opens at 9am Cenral Time. It is 7:30 now....I hope he gets in when his office opens. He makes his hospital rounds in the am...and is a little later getting in...I dont think I can wait until then. No more spotting and cramping has subsided. It wasn't really even much spotting. I wouldn't have even noticed it, if I hadn't looked, but I look cause I am parinoid now...Once biten.....Anyway, He probably won't eb able to tell me much until after Wed blood work. I am hoping he tells me, yes you are preg and your levels look good for how far along you should be...I am praying....

 

Jessica - October 18

Good Morning ladies...Welcome ileana & Dionne...Sorry to hear about your m/c as I too had a m/c in Aug....This is definitely a great thread to be a part of. Hope - Havent seen you in a while, glad that af hasnt shown her ugly face as of yet. I wish we had the answers as to why it is so hard to conceive. Feeling crampy today like af is going to show her ugly face, I sure hope not. I'm VERY bloated today too. Emily- I know what you mean about waiting til Thursday, good luck with that. We're all here waiting with you. Those numbers are going to quadruple just to give you that confidence you need for the next 9mths. Ashley - Thanks so much for that information, I never knew that. I just figured if the egg didnt implant in time that af would show and wipe away the egg. I tell you by the time we all get that BFP we're going to be fertility specialists. Dionne - good luck with your BFP. I'm trying not to test again til Friday, that's going to be very hard for me but i do have 1 test left, the ladies advised me to wait 2 days to allow HCG levels to increase so that's what I'm going to do, if by tomorrow i dont have a BFP I'm going to have to a__sume that af is coming to visit. Ashley - Great that the parents are coming to visit. So you're getting that big screen afterall, cool! Enjoy!! oh and btw, I went home last night and there wasnt a second line or an evaporation line either so it was a definite BFN....Emily - I'm trying not to throw in the towel but it's sooooooooo hard....I'm praying for a bfp this month, I'm trying not to stress its importance too much just in case but its so hard not to. Good morning Lucy, good luck with your appt in 2 days. I still think that it was too early for them to do that u/s.

 

Emily - October 18

Lucy, I hope your dr appointment goes better too. Did he/she tell you how far along you were? Did he do an u/s or just use a dopler to listen for heartbeat? It may have been too early to get a heartbeat. The heart starts beating around 4-5 weeks I think ( I could be a little offo n that) But you can't really pick it up until later like around 7-8 weeks...Hope everything goes well...

 

Emily - October 18

Jessica, it's too early. Just keep telling yourself that. Maybe you ovulated later than you thought...Ashley can you tell the dif between an evaporation line and a faint positive? Hope you enjoy your new to you furniture. And the big screen! We need a new TV. My husband has a 52 inch that he bought when he moved out on his own and the tube is going out...He wants a Wide Screen LCD...I jsut want one that doesn't turn yellow and green on us...Oh to actually see the baseball diamond as greena dn not the color of baby poop...Speaking of baby poops, where is carrie, aka CLynn? So who is waiting on af? Amyn, Justine, Lorriane, ileana, Dionne, Jessica, Hope, & Carrie? I can't remember. What about Terri? We have grown and it is so hard to keep up, but it's a good thing, I think...You all keep me from going completely insaine...

 

Jessica - October 18

I think you have us all who are waiting. Some of the newbies are waiting too. Hope they stick around with us. We definitely have grown. Oh and I'm waiting for (no) af this Friday...lol...Today is cd 32 - Oh my goodness, 3 more days to go....I cant believe it....This tww is finally coming to an end..... Carrie's dh must've been home so she couldnt sign on....According to that Chinese predictor if I conceive between this month and next month then I should have a boy...Dh wants a boy so bad since we already have my dd and she's like his own...***Fingers Crossed*** Babydust to all the lovely ladies on this thread....

 

Lucy - October 18

The Dr didn't say how far along i was as i think she was hoping to tell by the U/s. So hopefully i will find out more on Thursday.

 

Jessica - October 18

Lucy - She didnt even have the little chart thing that goes by your lmp (last menstrual period) that says the approx amount of weeks you were. I was 5weeks when I found out I was pg with my daughter. They had done an internal u/s and couldnt see the h/b yet. So they scheduled me for another internal u/s at 7 weeks, two weeks later and then they could detect it. So I know it's easier said than done but just relax your baby is just fine..

 

Sally C - October 18

I haven't posted since last week some time but really feel urgent about it today; AF is due. But I really need some support... please don't read the next part and skip over to the next post... things have changed for me. I really thought I would be ok either way even though I was anxious to find out. But now I really do want AF. DH is stressed too; he truly does not want a third child. I'm afraid if I am pg, it would cause LOTS of stress on all of us. Funny thing is as soon as I decided I did want AF to come I stopped feeling tired and sick. But,,, I still don't feel quite like usual either. After 1 week of no coffee, it just isn't enjoyable any more. Is that possible? My bbs aren't sore but never got over feeling full either. I haven't had my usual crying jag either. I know you guys are all hoping for BFP's and probably can't relate to me right now. But there doesn't seem to be anyone other place to post. The only one's on here that I have found who want AF are teens. Well.. maybe just saying it all will help.

 

Emily - October 18

Okay, the chinese calander says a girl for me....Ashley, I dont' really put much into it, but it si kinda fun...Ps you have to use the mothers lunal age at conception. Os I took my age at conception, 25 years and 9 mo and add 9 months means I was 26 and 6 months so 26 and conceive in Sept-Oct (not sure when I O for sure...) both puts me at a girl. the same went for mary too....

 

Emily - October 18

Sally C, I can't say I completely understand, but I do simpathize. I didn't think I was ready when I found out I was preg in July, but I guess we were cause when we m/c we wanted to preg again so bad. However we only have teh one child and she is so cute....I hope you get what you want. Just remember if it's not what you want, things have a way of working themselves out. (I just got to try and remember that myslef...) Just promise me one thing, if you are preg, you will take care of that baby and love it same as your others. Babies are special gifts. If you aren't pregnant, then I am glad for you and wish you well. I will be thinking of you....

 

Emily - October 18

Okay a moment to think of what might have been...according to that goofy chart...my m/c baby would have been a boy....So Carrie, you were somparing those silly charts weren't you? Find any discripancies???

 

Sally C - October 18

Emily thanks for your kindness. I know that this wait is different from yours; I truly hope all is ok with your pg. I know you're right, no matter what my DH loves me and we will get through this but I'm afraid he may bring up a possible solution that I can't deal with.

 

Jessica - October 18

Wow Sally C - You must also be an emotional wreck like the rest of us but of course from a different aspect. I sure hope that you get what you want so that you dont have to consider any alternatives that might be brought to you. I must agree with Emily - a baby is definitely a blessing. When I was pg with the baby I m/c'd I must say that financially we were not ready for another child but at the same time we wanted one so badly. When we finally were pg we were worried but thought we'd survive through it. When I m/c'd it just brought a whole different light and outlook on life in general, how precious it is and how easily it could be taken away. Good luck to you and please keep us posted on the outcome.

 

ashley - October 18

Emily, usually an evaporation line (this is what I've been told/read don't take it as gold) is not the same color as the actual control line its like brown not red or what ever.... a light positive would be just very light but the same color as the control line.. speaking of which I had myself thinking and ofcourse my last test I took had the faint second line in it, but i've been spotting and its very normal compared to other months, so unless AF doesn't get heavy, im not testing again.

 

Emily - October 18

Okay, I am a wreck right now. It is 9am here, about the time my dr gets in...I am so nervous. I jump everytime teh phone rings...I hope no one is in the office when he calls. I share an office with two others. One is gone but the other is here. We arent' telling anybody yet. The only people who know are my parents and my three sisters. We weren't going to tell them, but my mom could see somthing was wrong the first time she laid eyes on me sunday. And one sister is a nurse so I called her to talk. My youngest figured it out from hearing dh and i talk to my mom. My dad knows, cause I know mom wouldn't keep it form him. She also called my other sister b/c she was the only one whoe didnt' know...so I am waiting for the phone to ring and preaying it is good news. I won't be able to handle bad news. A- becasue that would suck to lose tow in a row ( I feel for any of those who have) and B- I have a really good feeling adn if I am wrong how can I trust my intuition anymore?!?!? Oh help! btw anyone heard form Heather. I know she started af, but was hooping she owuld stick around. And Ashley, I cried for you.....hope you get your bf[p next month...

 

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