ANYONE FRUSTRATED AND TIRED OF TTC VENT HERE

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cupid - September 13

i have been ttc for over a year now with nothing to show. and boy am i sick and tired!! i am only 25 and have been married for 3years. i always said that i would "wait" until marriage before having kids. and dh and i decided last year that it was time. after months of trying....nothing.....ladies if you feel the same as i do, this post is designed to let your feelings out.....go ahead.....maybe it will help to relieve the STRESS of ttc!....xoxoxo :>)babydust to all!!!!!!!``

 

rachel - September 13

it is hard but just keep tryin. that baby will come soon enough .try to keep ttc-ing fun and less stressfull.

 

b u m p - September 13

bump

 

sad me - September 13

every one say make it fun but how can you do that when all you want is baby and making love last thing you think about !!!!!!!!!!!!

 

GOOD IDEA - September 13

How come silly teenagers have s_x once and they're pregnant? Then loving parents who want (well NEED) to have a baby have to try every silly thing someome says will work and keep tying for a year! Or your spouce doesn't think it's the right time yet--how conviennt when you cant' t think of anything else!! UUGGHH!

 

cupid - September 13

finally someone who feel the same as i do you know all you have to do is make a mention and wait. then u realize that you are not the only one who may be in your boat... that's it lat it all out. for what its' worth it makes me feel alot better. ps. i see alot of teenage moms, who act like they don't even want their child(ren) let alone know how to love and properly care for them. its hard to see. one girl had a new baby in the mall when i asked how old she was the girl told me 3weeks old.(isn't that too young to be dragging your infant to the germy mall?)but anyway the baby started crying and wimpering and i swear the girl didn't even know what to do.she just kept the baby in the carrier seat rocking it back and forth on the bench at the food court. so after about 5-7 minutes of the einstien not knowing what to do i asked her if i could pick the infant up, she said yes, and as soon as i did the baby stopped crying. i feel that a real mom should have known that and not a stranger at the mall!

 

Alyssa - September 13

Good idea - I might have an answer to that question. I'm actually a strong christian and I was wondering that too. And after I thought about it it was so simple. When you are a teenager and not married, children can be a real ha__sle, especially if it was unplanned. God's plan was that you get married and have children. That is the blessing He gives us. And I also believe that there is evil out there. And if that evil knows that bringing on a baby unplanned and out of marriage can ruin someones life, it will do it. But listen, it doesn't always ruin someones life. Don't get all mad at me! :) But some people do let that happen. That's just my thoughts being a christian and all!

 

Alyssa - September 13

There is something about being married and having children that is such a blessing!

 

cupid - September 13

to alyssa, i totally agree. 100%. i too was raised in a strong religious home. and i believe that that evil (satan, i was taught) will do anything to ruin mankind and our belief in what god designed for us. and to put it simply he is doing a very good job!. but there is no need to get angry at those folks (even though sometimes the make it hard not to) some kids make the mistake and learn from it....then again sometimes they continue to have 5 different babies by 10 different men(maury povich show!!! lol).

 

Alyssa - September 13

cupid - yea, I would have called it "satan" but it seems now adays everyone gets offended and it just seemed srong if you know what I mean. I totally agree too!

 

ryan - September 13

what does a ttc mean? i have been trying to get preggo for almost a year and cant but i also have been taking diet pills so i dont know i was just wondering

 

Alicia - September 13

I have something to say in response to why teenagers who don't want to get pregnant are the ones who get pregnant. This is why. They are having s_x for fun. They are relaxed and aren't stressed about having a baby. Unlike most of us who have been trying to concieve for a while. We are so wrapped up in trying to make a baby that we aren't relaxed and are body's are stressed and that is making it harder for us. As for those teenagers No they don't realize how lucky they are but at the same time maybe if we all started acting like that we might get pregnant too. I am 6 days late, and I have been ttc for over a year. It is frustrating but we all need to relax and I know it is impossible. One of my friends got pregnant on a night of drunk s_x with her husband and she fully believes it was because she was relaxed. I don't know that is just my opinion. Babydust to everyone.

 

sad me - September 13

IM SO AGREE with you Alicia but how can we relax ????????specially when you are married for long and all thoses b___terflies are gone and you make love (have s_x) just to make baby !!!

 

Alicia - September 13

Sad Me I totally understand what you mean. I feel like the last year that i have had s_x it has been for a purpose. I honestly think it is up to the guy to try to make this more fun for us. They could be a little romantic. Why should it be all up to us? I mean I know there still must be something he can do to take our minds of the baby for at least 10 minutes right?

 

sad me - September 13

alicia ; you are right i have same problem here i know would be more fun and more chance if it could be little romantic i guess thast why i say to all my friend get pregnant first 2 years you got married other wise you just get use to same s_x and get use to be with eachother that making love is gone be far gone ! i feel like i became s_x machine 5 days a month like a rabit the rest ......i wonder if i ever can get pregnant if he never can make love even for 5 min !

 

Alyssa - September 13

Alicia and sad me - I totally agree. I seriously think the DH plays a huge part in the baby making. Him being romantic and you in return relaxing more, enjoying yourself more, and being turned on more will for one take your mind off the baby, but another help to get you more excited "down there" and let the sperm move more easily. Whip those DH's into shape! :)

 

N - September 13

Alyssa and cupid - I'm not particularly religious but I do agree that a couple needs to have the commitment of marriage to bring a life into the world. The foundations that commitment establish are what is needed to raise healthy, loving and caring children. A healthy family that love each other and that pay attention to little things like playing together and eating together tend to be those that last. Here's to married, educated people having babies! I feel bad for all those teen moms. They probably didn't have loving families that led healthy lifestyles. I also believe that some things happens for a reason and that we are meant to have the children we do, when we do. ****I wish you all loads of baby dust****

 

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