Anyone Late With Negative Tests

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JL - October 28

I am very frustrated, trying to conceive and three days late but two negative tests. The signs have been there that I am meant to start, but nothing. Have symptoms - sore sides, headaches, creamy discharge that has been there for a while now, shooting pains down my legs. Has anyone has these pains in their legs? Please share if you are late so I know I am not the only frustrated person. Would rater have my period so I know at least!!

 

Jen-uk - October 28

I feel your frustration JL i have an average 26 day cycle that would have been 3 days ago i should have started, but instead i have been getting creamy/wet cm, No achey bbs which i usually get for af, dry mouth, increased urination and appet_te, gas and bubbly cramps in lower and upper abdominal, i thought i would wait til CD29 as the latest af has come is no CD28, today is CD29 tested this morning and a very clear BFN from First Response, and still no sign of af, i am very confused...

 

JL - October 28

Jen - Thanks for replying, glad I am not the only one! This whole waiting period is terrible. Are you trying to conceive? How long have you been trying? I would have thought the creamy/wet cm is a sign of starting, but nothing so far. I don't normally get it for this long. I keep going to the loo to check if I have started. I guess most people would say it is still early days, but I can be hopeful!!

 

Jen-uk - October 28

I came off the pill at the begining of the year, but haven't officially started trying since August/September. If I dont start by Monday, i'm gonna test again. How about you?

 

JL - October 28

I stopped the pill at the end of August and we have been trying since. My first period was only 3 days and this would be my second??? I agree with you, if I don't start by Monday, will try again Monday morning. Will hold thumbs for you! So nice to chat to someone in the same boat that we can compare notes!!

 

Jen-uk - October 28

When i first came off the pill i had a lot of spotting before af actually arrived, my cycle in the 3rd month was 34 days, but i am now an average of 26 for the last few months so i dont see why i should have a long cycle now! I wish you luck too JL. ~~~ Baby dust ~~~

 

JL - October 28

I guess only time will tell for the two of us. I worry that I am just too hopeful and this is why I feel like I am getting the "symptoms". At least you sort of know what your cycle is like, so it is possible!! With me, who knows, as you say, your 3rd month was 34 days, so it is possible that I am not. Will have to patiently wait for time to pa__s bye!!

 

me too - October 28

I'm 22 days and still waiting. I have had 2 negative results. I fell PG, but we will see. I have a doctors appt on Nov 8/05. Hopefully this gives me some much needed answers

 

JL - October 28

That is a long time to wait!! This is all I think about now, which is bad because it doesn't help with getting pregnant either. 22 days is long.

 

S - October 28

I definately know your frustration, JL. I'm a week late and my blood and HPT's were all negative! I have all the signs of PG too! My doctor told me to come back in two weeks to retest since maybe it was too early to pick up and Hcg hormones. Good luck and I hope things turn out for you!

 

JL - October 31

S, thanks for the input. I am now 6 days late and no AF. Symptoms seem to have gone as well. Have you started yet or still waiting??

 

JL - October 31

Jen-uk, just wondering whether you tested this morning?? I did a test and negative, but maybe have to wait a while because too early to pick up?? So frustrating.

 

Jen-uk - October 31

Hi JL, I am now 6 days late, i tested on Friday and Sunday, both negative, i have been having cramps and creamy cm leaking out making me think it was af, but still no sign whatsoever, i read somewhere that either high/low blood pressure can delay it, but my mum who is a nurse tested me and it was normal. i will wait til midweek then i'm going to the dr's. How are you doing today JL?

 

JL - October 31

Today, I am frustrated because of the negative result. I just wish I would either start or get a positive result. I have more questions than answers at the moment. For all I know, I could start today and then have the same frustration next month. Decided bugger the tests, will just have to wait the days out and see what happens. I am sure you are as frustrated as me!!! Let me know when you get some answers and I will do the same!! Speak soon. Jill.

 

Jessica - October 31

Ladies - I'm in the same boat. af was due on 10/21 and still no sign of her or a BFP. I've been testing every couple of days and still BFN's. I have a drs appt later today to check me out to let me know what the status is. I've been ttc this is my 2nd month after a m/c in Aug. Good luck ladies and if a BFP is what you're waiting for like me then I hope that's what you get.

 

Lauren - October 31

I'm also in the same boat. I'm 8 days late. Normally have a 32 day cycle like clockwork. Two BFN hpts. I'm so frustrated. I would like to either know for sure that I'm pregnant or just start already (I never ever thought those words would come out of my mouth). I have some pregnancy symptoms... but I might just be paranoid. Any ideas, ladies?

 

Jessica - October 31

Lauren - Same here, I wish I had the answer for you...Doesnt it suck...I feel different symptoms here and there but never anything definite or steady...sometimes I think its all in my mind...I agree, I never thought I would say the words but if I'm not pg then where is af?

 

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