Blueeyedgirl Waiting For 6th June Anyone Want To Jpin Me

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blue - May 21

Hello! The "Waiting Buddy 9" thread is so long now I thought I'd start a new one just for us soon to ovulate (hopefully) chicks! Dh and I have been TTC since November, I m/c'd February. I've again resisted the lure of ovulation predictor sticks and am preparing for the bding to commence!! Join me! (Waiting, not BDing)! love Blue x

 

Lynette - May 21

Hey there Blue! I was supposed to ovulate yesterday, but the silly sticks are still coming up negative - resist the urge to try them, Blue - they are causing me nothing but heartache! As I know I have a 28 day cycle, if I don't get a positive opk by tomorrow, it means I have a short luteal phase - and now I'm wondering if that's why I miscarried in January, and also part of me is hoping that the silly things don't go positive at all, so I can just pretend they are faulty (ha ha!). So anyway, I'll be waiting on a 3rd of June af, so I hope you don't mind if I join you here as well :-) (unless you think I'm sounding too manic, that is - which is how I'm coming across now that I re-read this!!) Take care, :-))

 

blue - May 21

Hey there Lynette. I'd love for you to join me! Manic is good - in fact due to extremely naughty and anti all advice cup of coffee this morning, after months of no caffeine I am feeling pretty manic myself!! Sorry to hear the ov sticks are not coming up with the goods. I'd suggest you flushed them down the loo if I didn't know they were so expensive! How pg were you when you m/c'd? I'm sure you've posted it before, but I can't remember. And how long ttc? Has dh succ_mbed to the Juniper berry treatment yet? My dh has a throbbing head after one too many gla__ses of red yesterday. I've sent him off to lie on the sofa and recover as I need him in action later...ha ha. Spontaneous?? Moi? Poor bloke - I think he thinks I've been possessed or something. "Wear loose pants, don't drink, eat lots of brazil nuts.... and be up for the bd anytime!! Oh, and be permanantly interested in the slightest twinge, feeling of sickness, dizziness or tiredness in the last 2 weeks of each month. And then prepared to be a broad shoulder to cry on when I get a BFN. And then start all over again". I'm lucky he's so marvellous. On another note, (not talking about cm here!) do you 'know' when you ovulate? I've read lots of ladies who get pain etc but I have to say, I've never noticed anything. Am I rambling...yes, I think so! I'll shut up now. Really glad you've joined this thread - thank you! love Blue x

 

Lynette - May 21

Wow - you do sound pretty manic (ha ha!!) Lucky hubby you've got there - I'm sure he's not too upset about the "on demand" bd'ing. So, brazil nuts eh? What's the go there? I haven't told hubby about the juniper berries yet - he gets a bit "concerned" when I start suggesting alternative therapies ;-). I tried robitussen a couple of months ago, to make the cm runnier - he thought I'd gone nuts! I miscarried in January - went for a 13 week scan and discovered that the baby had died about 2 and a half weeks earlier :-(. Had a d&c the next day and took ages to get hcg levels back down. Have had 2 "normal" cycles since then so I guess I shouldn't be so desperate - it's just that I wasn't ready to "not" be pregnant, you know? I really want to conceive before July 25th because that's when my baby was due, and I feel it would make it a bit less tragic if I had a baby that would otherwise have been "un-haveable" if you know what I mean. As for knowing when I ovulate, that's just about impossible, I'm finding - I don't have much in the way of cervical mucus because I carry the gene for cystic fibrosis, which can affect that sort of thing, I don't get any sort of twinges etc, and now the stupid sticks apparently are duds! Frustrated? You bet!! Well, I hope you have luck "reviving" your husband later. Baby dust to you ****++**+++**+*+****+*+*

 

blue - May 21

Evening Lynette, So sorry to hear about your m/c. I've got everything crossed for a BFP for you this month. Brazil nuts have got lots of selenium in, which apparently will make dh's little wrigglers a whole lot more energetic! That's the theory, anyway! I do get exactly what you mean about having a baby in the 'not pregnant' gap - a baby that would have missed out otherwise. Sacks of specially sparkly baby dust to you. No luck with dh - he's asleep on the sofa with the dog (!), but I'm only on day 12 so I guess I can wait till the morning. I'm pretty sure I dont ov. till CD16 or 17 anyway so I've got a way to go. Keep me posted! Love blue x

 

Lynette - May 22

Hi there Blue! Well, I either didn't ovulate this month or the opk's are big duds!! Or maybe I don't produce enough of the hormone it's supposed to pick up. Or maybe I ovulate REALLY early or REALLY late... do you see why you shouldn't go down this path??? Oh well, we bd'd based on cervical position on CD14 and 15, so now I guess the wait is on for 3rd of June. You'd be about ready to go for it in a serious way - so I'll send you back the sparkly baby dust and throw some more in for good measure ;-) I really hope this is our month, Blue - you take care and chat soon! :-) ****++**++***

 

Lynette - May 26

Bluuuuuue!!!!! Where are you??? Are you just laying low and waiting for the 1st to roll around??? Are you having any symptoms or anything? Take care :-)

 

Lynette - May 26

Oh yeah... I know what you are doing! I just realised that it's the 6th you get your af and right now is ovulation day - sending lots of baby dust to you! ;-)

 

blue - May 26

Hey Lynette!! I haven't been avoiding you! I had a really down day a couple of days ago and wrote a post but I see now that I must not have hit the Submit b___ton! (I had had a couple of gla__ses of wine at the time!). Yes, the bd is goin' on - but thank heaven those little squigglers can live a couple of days - dh and I have so much to do that we rarely have the energy for the bd. I know we will need lots of energy for baby, but I am pushing hard for a promotion at work at the moment - not much more work, but a LOT more money - and dh, who usually is a house husband has suddenly secured 2 jobs (temporarily, luckily!) We're exhausted. Well, I THINK I ovulated today; or I will tomorrow. 1st month of being rigorous about monitoring cm so a bit hit and miss! It's the last day of ewcm that is the most fertile, I think... but of course if you've bd'd that can mess up (! lol) your 'finger test'!. Yuk - onto more appealing topics. How are you, Lynette... started the big 'wait' this month by now, I'm guessing!? Any twinges? Or are you, like me, trying not to think about it! ? Thanks for posting! I promise not to disappear again! Love blue x

 

Tasha - May 26

Hi everyone! I'm waiting for June 6th to roll around...my chances are extremely slim...but I'm still waiting to see! The waiting game really sucks! LOL

 

Lynette - May 26

Sad to see you had a "down" day, Blue, was it work or baby related? Welcome to Tasha - what's your story, I don't think I've seen you around before. Well, I'm "actively" NOT looking for symptoms this month (although last night I dreamt my areolas were darker!!) and I'm not wasting money on any tests until 2nd of June. I'm technically due for af on 1st, so that will be pretty strong of me to wait a whole extra day (lol!). I hope your timing with ewcm is right - I can't help you there because I don't really get ANY.. I have to do the "other" finger test and check the cervix position (double "yuk"). I can't touch my bottom lip now without thinking about s_x LOL!!! ;-)) Anyway, good luck with your promotion - when do you find out if you got it? Take care :-)

 

Tasha - May 26

Hey Lynette! Ya I'm pretty new around here! I've posted a few things but I'm really waiting to see what happens to me! LOL...well heres my story. I'm only 19 - yay 20 on saturday - and me and my bf were fooling around and stupidly we didnt use any protection even tho we both have never let it get that far before. I was only like 6 days into my cycle (i have a shorter cycle..sometimes as short as 24 days...usually 26). So we waited until the next day and I went and got Plan B (I didnt wanna take it, but i did) I know it works for 72 hours but it decreases in effectiveness as time goes on (about 35 hours pa__sed and I took the 2nd pill 2 hours after i was supposed to). And the the package said if its before you ovulate the pill will stop ovulation. I know when I'm ovulating because I get a pain in my ovary, and I felt that on saturday! So maybe it will do the other thing its supposed to. Soooooo...now I'm waiting to see what happens! I think I could handle having a baby right now and the thought makes me a little excited! My bf on the other hand is scared. LOL. I have to admit, even tho I'm young and in university, a part of me wants to be pg! My mom had me young and was the most amazing mother ever! Anyway...thats my story! I feel bad for taking that stupid pill tho. I feel guilty!!!

 

blue - May 27

Hey there Lynette Nice to hear from you... waiting for a whole day is quite impressive - those little sticks are soooooooooo tempting, aren't they?! You mentioned that you carry the cf gene - did you have to go for gene counselling with dh? I only ask because I am a biology teacher and unnaturally interested about that sort of thing! Oh I really hope it's your month this month! I was down about work stuff, not baby stuff. Dh is absolutely wonderful and I don't think we've ever been happier. But I'm one of those "yes" people, who always end up with too much on their plate! The promotion will be based on people coming to watch me at work and interview the kids I teach, but I'm just sending the application form in today so it will be a few weeks yet, I expect! Still, half term now so I can relax a bit for a week (except not too much; I've got a million and one lessons to plan!). What is that whole thing with cervix position, anyway; mine seems to bob about all over the place!! Post soon - I really enjoy our little chats! Love blue xx

 

blue - May 27

ps dreaming about your nipples!! You're as nuts as me!! lol =) love blue xx

 

Megan - May 27

blue, i laughed so hard about, "Oh, and be permanantly interested in the slightest twinge, feeling of sickness, dizziness or tiredness in the last 2 weeks of each month." i TOTALLY do that to my poor hunny... and he patronizes me, even asks me about my symptoms 'cause he knows i'll want to talk about them. plus i'm sure he won't tease me about how crazy i am when i end up being not pregnant. he makes this that much easier.

 

Megan - May 28

did i say "patronizes"... i really meant "humors"

 

blue - May 28

Hey there Megan - and welcome. Yup, the old dh / bf really has to be a bit of a rock during all this, doesn't he?! Poor blokes - they think they are committing to happy go lucky, relaxed, chilled out characters, then as soon as we start trying for babies... BOOM - we're all Margaret Thatcher (in snooty voice "This lady's NOT for turning; come on, pants off. I'm OVULATING so get to it!!". How long ttc, Megan? Post again soon. Love blue xx

 

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