Can Any One Offer Any Advice

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stillhoping - July 7

Hi everyone. I have a question...When I was 16 (i am now almost 21) I had an abortion, After I had it i was in alot of pain for about 2 weeks. My periods have never been odd or anything other then the fact that they are never bright red only brown and thick. (sorry tmi I know) I was wondering if maybe they Messed up (in your opinion) because I am ttc right now But not having any luck and when I look back I probably should Have been Pregnant a few times in the past. thank you for your advice. and good luck to everyone trying

 

Grandpa Viv - July 7

I think you will find pro-life and pro-choice have conflicting opinion on this. If you are finding conception difficult for whatever reason, the first action should be to get scientific with temperature charting (fertilityfriend.com) and checking cervical position and mucus. If you are not successful inside a year, then a fertility specialist might be able to help. Good luck!

 

jue - July 7

Hi, I was trying for 3 yrs before I stayed pregnant, I am now 12 weeks. If I was you I would listen to granpa viv as he has always put us on the right road. he helped me to keep ttc even after I had 15 miscarriages. I believe every woman has the right to choose for herself about her own body. you wont get grief from me about your past. good luck. and give yourself a year before seeing a specialist. hugs and babydust

 

rhamel - July 7

How long have you been ttc? I have heard that sometimes after an abortion there can be scarring that can make it difficult to conceive in the future, I'm nowhere near as knowledgable as a lot of other people on this forum I just wanted to pa__s on some info that I heard. Maybe you could see your gyno and they could tell if you have abnormal scarring or something?

 

LoVeLyMoMmY - July 7

Let me tell you this..when i was 22 i had an abortion..for reasons like the dad was a psycho..and it wasnt the right environment..for a child ...anyways 2yrs later i had a babay and ttc #2..i didnt have much pain afterwards but everyone is different..talk to your doctor ask him/her to check it out...good luck

 

Danielle26 - July 7

According to a lot of research unless you had an abortion before 1973, which is impossible for you, the chances of messing up anything are very low. I agree with the others. Wait it out a year before calling a specialist. Good luck.

 

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