Confused And Really Need Some Help

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dead_poetic1987 - May 19

My last normal period was at the begining of march and I got married right after that and the next one (april 18) was a week late and lighter than usual and also 3 days longer. I feel like i'm pregnant. and after that period my br___ts have gotten very sore and have been for about a month now when it's usually just a day or two before my period. I've also been more tired than usual and feel sick to my stomach at random times. Sometimes I'm really hungry and other times I feel so sick I can't eat. and today i started what I'm believing to be my period except it's more than 2 weeks early which is not normal for me at all. Oh yeah I've also gained some weight since shortly after I got married 2 months ago. a few pairs of my pants actually don't fit around my waist anymore, and it's only my stomach that seems to be getting bigger. But the test I took just monday was negative so I'm really confused now. Sorry this is so long.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 19

Oh and I forgot to add that me gaining weight period is very unusual because I've never gained weight like this before, I'm only 18 and 2 months ago I weighed 114 lbs and last time i checked around 2 weeks ago i was already to about 120. I haven't changed any of my habits since getting married either. So basically I'm just really confused right now. Please help if you can

 

Clarissa23 - May 19

how late are you right now? is your bleeding different from normal?

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 19

Well see the thing is I'm not late, It's like 17 days early. And yesterday it was kinda normal but today it hasn't really been much of anything. So I'm not really sure what to think right now.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 19

anyone else have any advice?

 

Lin - May 19

What exactly does getting married have to do with anything? Did you quit birth control when you got married or something? If so, that alone explains all your symptoms. Quitting birth control makes your body go nuts.

 

BrendaW - May 19

I know that being in a relationship you gain weight sometimes. I did. I dont see where you say you were on bc? Have you taken a test yet?

 

BrendaW - May 19

Oh sorry you did take a test :) I missed that. i think you should go to a doc and have a blood test just so that you feel better.

 

jackie07 - May 20

sounds like you are pregnant. the sore b___sts are very common in early pregnancy. i took like 4 tests and they were all neg. i didnt have a positive one until i was about 7 weeks pregnant! go to the doctor and get a blood test to ease your mind. but you explained all the symptoms i had in my pregnancy, i spotted the first few months too. but if u were on bc and stopped that could be the reason also.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 20

well the reason that getting married has something to do with me maybe being pregnant is that I waited to have s_x until I was married. And no I've never been on bc. oh and my "period" which is more than two weeks early only lasted a day and a half.

 

Clarissa23 - May 20

oh i see...i waited for marriage too...got pregnant on my honeymoon...i would go to an ob and see what they say..i have to have ultrasounds to diagnose my pregnancies since my hcg is so low..you could have the same situation

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 20

Yeah I was planning on going to the doctors soon but we just got insurance so I'm not sure when I'm going to be able to make an appointment.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 24

okay so today (right now) I have the worst headache. and I've also had some pain in my lower abdomen, it's not like cramping though, it's different. I'm getting extremely tired even after a full nights rest. I just don't know what's going on. I read somewhere online that another pregnancy sign is a stuffy/runny nose, is that true?

 

snugglybugglys - May 24

Yes that is a sign I get it with every pregnancy. It has something to do with the membranes.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 24

my nose has been stuffy/runny for the past month now. I was just figuring that I was about to get a cold but I haven't gotten one yet so I don't think that's what it is. I've continued to have bleeding but it's hardly anything at all and it's brown. I'm not sure what to do..

 

Cady - May 24

Hi. I think you should go to the doctor's. Make an appointment for a bllod test. I just went to have one done. It was quick and in and out. I never even saw the doctor. I got the results the next day. If the results are negative, then make an appointment for a physical if you wanYour last period was April1 18th? Then May 19th is about right for this af right? Why would you say you were 2 weeks early? I think I misunderstood. Anyway, get a blood test, it's cheap and will give the answers in a day. You don't need to make an appointment way in advance, at least I didn't. I got one the day I called. I had to leave work early, but it was worth it. Good luck.

 

dead_poetic1987 - May 24

normally i'm every 5 weeks and this last one came at 3 weeks. the one in april was also a week late. these last 2 periods have been very unusual. a lot lighter than normal.

 

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