Could This Be Implantation Pain

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alimay866 - November 9

i am 17 years old ill be 18 december 11th. anyways my period started october 19th and my cycle is around 29 days. i had unprotected s_x october 26th november 2nd and then again on the 7th. Today at work (im a cashier) i had this really sharp pain in the center of my lowe abdomen like it hurt for a bried moment but it was sharp enough to make me catch my breath and grab my stomach. is this a symptom? i know about implatation pain but im not even sure it's soon enough

 

mjvdec01 - November 9

If you don't want to become pregnant, you really need to call your doctor and get the morning after pill. You probably ovulated on the 2nd of November. Can you talk to your mother? You are very young and a baby is a huge responsibility

 

alimay866 - November 9

i want to be pregnant i love children and this wasn't an accident me and my boyfriend want it we are planning on getting married asap

 

mjvdec01 - November 9

So you are both self sufficient? Is your boyfriend older than you? In college? Have a really good job? Babies are very stressful and are probably 100x more work than you know. I hate to see a very, very young girl make a huge mistake. I know you are excited and you think this is something you want right now, but wouldn't it be better to finish school, get a great job, then get married and have kids when you can afford some of the luxuries in life? Instead of sc___ping by wondering how you will make it to payday? Unless your boyfriend is wealthy? In that case I would recommend seeing the work and just being a happily married couple for a few years and really getting to know one another. The divorce rate for people your age is about 90%, without children. Please honey, think about what you are doing. if you have a baby now you are going to miss out on so much. Being the age you are is all about freedom and exploration, having a baby and freedom. You life changes completely. Don't you want to be able to provide everything a child could possibly need and want? To do that you need life experience and a solid foundation. If you don't have that the child is the one who will suffer. I am sorry to be so blunt, I know you think you can handle this right now, but your age proves otherwise. I am really sorry. :{

 

alimay866 - November 9

i don't have to put up with this nonsence i asked a simple question and you guys are getting into business that is not yours to be getting into. for your imformation the longer you wait to have children that harder it is to have them. incase you did not know. i would rather have them when im young and active and while i still remember what it is like to be a child that way i can relate to my child the farther away you are age wise the more difficult it is to relate because every 10 years things change. Im not a party girl. My life isn't all that exciting. My child will be raised in a strong family supported home. it will have everything it needs im not even worried about that and a child should never get everything it wants because then it will be spoiled i have gotten alot of advice and im not your typical teen mother i have my head on straight i know whats right for me and only i can be the judge of that yes i agree i could wait a year or two but that is not neccesary. and will that really make a difference if i wait the only difference is i will have to try even harder and that sucks infertility at a young age runs in my family so im going to try now while i still have a fighting chance

 

mjvdec01 - November 9

Hey, I am just one person with an opinion, you can take it or leave it. You have to be prepared for the reponses that you may get when you post.

 

poechrisk - November 9

Alimay, I don't think Mj is trying to insult you. She's just trying to offer you some experience. I'm young, too (23) and my husband and I are just recently feeling ready enough to have a baby. And I should let you know, that at my age, I though fertility and getting pregnant would be a snap. But it's not. It's taken us 6 months so far and I still haven't received a BFP, only have suspicions. We've both finished college and have steady jobs now. You still have time. Do you plan on going to college? That's going to be 100 times more difficult with a baby. I'm not saying it can't be done. It's just harder. I'm not trying to judge you or anything. If you want to talk, just let me know.

 

nickay - November 10

Alimay-i was 17 when i had my daughter, and it has changed my life to a positive! if it wasnt for her i would not be where i am today, i say congradulations (since you want this). As for the pain, i had that last wed, very sharp pain and im 9 days late, no syptoms so far, all tests say Negitive, i had a blood test done yesterday but who knows. good luck on your journey!

 

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