Could Use Some Answers Advice Please

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HLT1986 - September 4

So ill start off by saying my LMP was August 16. I had unprotected "pull out" s_x on August 30. On that date my boyfriend and I did it twice in a row pretty much and he did not use the restroom inbetween the two "sessions" (sorry tmi). I read somewhere that there is more of a chance for sperm to be in pre c_m if the man does not use the restroom in between ejaculation. Is this true? I have Regular 28 day cycles so if I am doing the math correct the 30th would have been my most fertile day right? It is now 5 days later and I would say the only thing i am feeling is sharp, twinging cramps that are on and off in my lower abdomen. I really thought of them more as bowel related but I dont really know. Any input from anyone would be amazing..sorry its so long!! THANK YOU

 

Grandpa Viv - September 4

Your a___lysis is correct, but you are going to have to wait several more days before you can attach any importance to signs. A week from now a list of signs would be worth a comment, but don't go imagining stuff. There is perahps a 10% or 15% chance of pregnancy from this encounter. Good luck!

 

HLT1986 - September 5

Thank you so much, a 10 to 15% chance makes the mind not wonder and worry about it so much therefore not imagining stuff that isnt there! If anyone else has any suggestions or in a situation like this please feel free! thanks again

 

sadiejai - September 5

I am in a similar situation HLT. My boyfriend and I had unprotected s_x on my most fertile day. That was on the 24th of August. Im playing the waiting game now which is awful by the way. Last week sometime I was feeling twinging pain in my lower right abdomen. For the past 4-5 days ive been feeling nauseous alot. I have lost my appet_te and when i do eat i feel sick after alot of the time. As well the last two days ive been experiencing cramps pretty steadily. Almost like AF is coming so.......its either that or im prego. No spotting from implantation tho so i dont know how usual that is for people. Hope this helps

 

HLT1986 - September 5

Thank you so much sadiejai! This should mean you will see AF this weekend sometime?? Its about time for you to have a test ready it seems. You actually have promising symptoms for sure! I am 6 days past my fertile day and feel nothing so i suppose i can let the whole idea out of my mind! GOOD LUCK!

 

sadiejai - September 5

Well ive decided that im going to get a handfull of dollar store pregnancy tests. I dont want to spend alot of moolah on really expensive ones so ill test every few days. We will see what happens. Either way i will post my happenings :)

 

HLT1986 - September 5

Those dollar store ones are cheap and effective. Gets that job done!! Good luck! Keep us posted!

 

sadiejai - September 5

Well that was my thought as well....ill try everyday....or so. If i get one of those " i think im preggers gotta check now" feelings i wont feel guilty for doing it haha

 

hunnydoo - September 5

sadiejai - do you have a 28 day cycle? I think I'm preggers too... having had s_x on Aug 24th. My BB's have been more tender for the past couple of days, and since last night I've had steady cramping, but I'm still 6 days away from AF. Don't usually have cramping until right when I get AF. Not sure how early I should test?? Or should I wait it out for a missed period?

 

HLT1986 - September 5

hunnydoo, it is said that the best results come after you miss af but many woman get bfp's roughly 4 days before their missed AF depending on the test type. Breast tenderness is said to be one of the very first symptoms. I would wait 3 or 4 days, test using FMU if it is bfn then wait to see if you miss af.. if you do test again after that using FMU until you see your BFP...good luck

 

sadiejai - September 5

I dont know how many days my cycle is.....so i wouldnt be much help to you. I do however have 6 cheapo Pregnancy test and a first response....im nervous to try them. God this is crazy!!

 

sadiejai - September 5

WELL.....took the FR test and it was a BFN :( I was really sure that i was preggo....i mean i know i wasnt making these symptoms up. I feel ridiculous now :S DARN IT!

 

honeydue - September 5

sadiejai - It's still so early to know for sure! it's not a definate thing... you could very well be pregnant, it's just too early to detect the HCT hormones. I would try again in a week.

 

HLT1986 - September 5

Did you actually take it FMU or just on a whim? if it wasnt FMU maybe it wasnt too accurate or its still a lil too early? I am sorry to hear the disappointment though.. keep your fingers crossed

 

sadiejai - September 5

What does FMU mean? Even if im not due till Sunday would it still not show now?

 

HLT1986 - September 5

FMU means First Morning Urine. That is the most potent and has the most readible amounts of hCg in it. If you arent due for AF til Sunday you may not see a bfp til sunday or a few days later even!!

 

sadiejai - September 5

The first response says that u dont need to have FMU....and it says u can test up to 5 days before?! im so confused. I guess ill wait for AF to come....maybe if it doesnt ill retest.

 

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