Disappointed

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Stephanie - July 13

Hi everyone. I had a miscarriage in Feb. (the hardest thing I've had to go through) My husband and I have been trying ever since with no luck. It seems like every month I get more and more symptoms. This month, I had sore and swollen breats, fatigue BIG TIME, couldn't eat certain foods because it would make me gag, my nipples were constantly hard and my aeolas were bigger and darker. I got cramps more than 1 week before my period was due...so much that I thought I was going to get it early. I was technically due today and woke up this morning thinking...alright, nothing yet. Then 1 hr ago, i went to the washroom and wiped...and yep, a bit of pink...not red though. But anyway, I'm so discouraged! I want this baby so bad...Well, I'm still hoping that I'm getting this period because I conceived late...I know that you could have your period even if you're pregant but should there be cramping as well? If anyone's going through this, please write back. I think I need to talk to someone... :( Thank you

 

bbygyrlk - July 12

Stephanie, I'm sorry to hear about your loss in Feb. I personally am not going through this but one of my friends had a miscarriage in Mar. 2003, she ended up getting pregnant in July and had her baby somtime in May (A Healthy Boy). I am telling you this so that you do not get discouraged. Even if you are not pregnant this month, don't give up. God will bless you with that bundle of joy you've wanted for so long.

 

Stephanie - July 13

Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. It means alot. Every month I try and tell myself "just let it be, it will happen" but when everyone around me is pregnant and having babies it's hard. I'm so happy for them but at the same time, I'm so jealous. Anyway, we'll just keep trying and hopefully soon we'll get those 2 little lines that we've been hoping for each month. Thanks again bbygyrlk!

 

bbygyrlk - July 13

No Prob Stephanie, You've already been pregnant so that proves that you do not have any fertility issues, now it's all about timing. Get an ovulation predictor kit if you have to, it will boost your chances. If you got pregnant once than it WILL happen again. Make sure you come back on the board and let us know when it does happen. Good Luck!!!

 

Stephanie - July 13

Thank you I will. My next period is due on the 9th of August so I'll come back with an update for sure. You know, if you're this encouraging with all your friends...then they're very lucky to have you. Talk to you soon.

 

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