Dont Know What To Think Or Do Pleaz Help Me

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charity - March 22

hiya. im only young so im quite confused. i have heard about implantation bleeding and im not sure if i have that or not. you see, i have started my period today. normally its heavy agony deep thick and dark blood. but its quite light, not too light just rather light in comparison. and the blood is bright red like its not the lining of my womb. i duno how to say it. its in discharge (sorry) but there is alot of blood. but no way near the usual. i did have unprotected s_x near my ovulation (as i worked out it was the day before) so im not too sure what to think. it will probably get harder and then turn into a full blown period but if you guys can help it would be great

 

charity - March 22

im begging please

 

chriss - March 22

Charity - the timing for pregnancy was right. The day before ovulation is probably the best/worst time to have s_x for pregnancy. Normally implantation bleeding is a light pinking/brownish discharge. You shouldn't even really need a pantiliner for it, however it's different for every women. If you are bleeding alot, it may just be af. If the bleeding stops instead of turns into a full b__wn period, then you should wait a few days and do a HPT. If you are not trying to get pregnancy, you should DEFINTATELY consider using birth control, because if you aren't pregnant this time, you've gotten a lucky break, take advantage of it and protect yourself in the future. Good luck to you!

 

charity - March 22

its not that. were a young couple who are trying. weve been married for a year. but we are young compaired to alot of people who are trying for a baby. i have a pantyliner but it only has a few spots of blood on it not too much.

 

chriss - March 22

Charity, very sorry to jump to conclusions......... this does sound like implantation bleeding, are you having any other symptoms ie: lightheaded/dizzy, sore/tingly b___bs, cramping in your abdomen, nausea??

 

Audrey - March 22

It sounds to me like you're having implantation spotting. If you're trying to get pg this is the first sign. You won't get any result on a home test for another week or two, so hold your breath and good luck!

 

charity - March 22

its strange. its bright red not dark. i have very tender b___sts and an incredably sore throat. i had my tonsils out near two weeks ago but the pain subsided and now ive just all of a sudden got a sore throat. could be unrelated. the bleeding would probably be described as a normal period to people who get really light periods. i dnt seem to be gaining any more on my pad, its just there when i wipe. theres a bit of discharge in it too but its not excessive amounts of blood like normal. dont worry bout jumpin to conclusions. my doctor ytold me i should plan a family now if i ever want one. sad really

 

charity - March 22

als i have nticed my purfume smells different., its much more sweeter than it was. my nails are growing dead fast etc.

 

chriss - March 22

Charity, any reason why your Dr. told you to plan a family now if you want one?? Also, are you taking prenatal vitamins? this may be why your nails are growing faster. The blood on the tissue when you wipe is definatley a sign that it may be implantation bleeding. You probably won't start to feel signs (if you do at all) for the next week or so, it's only after the implantation processes is complete that the signs begin to show. When I was preg, the first signs for me was the spotting when I wiped after the bathroom and then within a few days I started to get lightheaded etc (I had a m/c two weeks ago). Some women do experience flu-like symptoms as one of the first signs. If your af doesn't come in the next couple of days, you should take an early detection first response pregnancy test.

 

charity - March 22

my doctor told me to start planning a family now if i want one because i have a condition in my reproductive system which slowly makes you infertile. also i have kidney failure, and at the mment my kidneys would be strong enough to cope with pregnancy but it may progress and become worse with time. my nails have been growing faster and i have terrible acne at the moment. its wierd. i was due af on the 20-21st. so i duno. this may be it. the bleeding is starting to die down all ready. its barely there now.

 

charity - March 22

by the way not on prenatal vitamins - what are they.

 

chriss - March 22

acne can also be an early sign. The increase in hormones and all that. I'm very sorry to hear about your predicament with both the Kidney Failure and reproductive problem, I'm very sorry if I've asked too personal of a question. It really does sound like you may be pregnant and so you should definately consider starting to take prenatal vitamines. These vitamines will contain things like folic acid etc in order to help prevent again neural tube defects in your baby, (diseases like spina biffida) You should go to your Doctor and ask some questions about prenatal vitamines etc. Someone don't like to take them because they are synthetic (not natural products) but hey fake is better than nothing right. If you don't get your full b__wn period in a couple of days, take a test. Good luck!!

 

Saird - March 22

I had bright red bleeding when I got pregnant with my son. I thought I had lost him, but when I went to the doctor, I was told I was still pregnant. "Just barely." is the way the nurse put it. Nice answer huh?

 

jena - March 22

charity - you can get prenatal vitamins at any drugstore - look in the vitamin aisle - some have a baby on them so you can really tell what they are! If you are trying for a baby, they are really important so that your body has all the vitamins it needs in it. you just take one a day like usual vitamins. how young are you, if you don't mind my asking? good luck!!!

 

charity - March 22

ohhh no, i didnt know about those vitamins. my twin sister has spina bifida. you wernt asking too personal questions, most people discourage young people having babies. i think that nurses can be heartless a bit too. im glad your son worked out and you didnt misscarry. do u at al have any more advice to me. im new to all this and my doctor has not been to much help except for telling me to concieve. not much use eh

 

charity - March 22

im only 18. i have been married for a year. my husbands only 19, but as he wants children he said he was quite prepaired to have them young if it means we have them. we have alot of financial support from families and funds set up for us when we were young so in a way were luckier than most. i know you find this bizarre (by the way we live in england so the s_x age is 16 not 21. you all probably think this is wrong of me, but you are trying to cncieve now and just think if youw ere told this at a young age would you have tryed. thanks for all your support and all the advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated.

 

sick of it - March 22

your a kid accept that you cant have kids when your older and live life for now. you will probably be dead by the time the kid is two anyway. geeze you only think of yourself

 

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