Fake Pregnancy Help

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Joe - July 6

The day after I broke off a relationship with a woman she came to my home telling me she tested positive on a home pregnancy test. Since she forgot to bring it with her, I asked she take another. Reluctantly she did. After much time waiting for her to urinate, she finally did and it came up negative. I asked her to take both tests in the box but she said she only had enough urine for one test(?) Early the next week she said she scheduled an appointment with her doctor who confirmed her positive home test with a blood test. Suspicious of the timing of this, I still went with the possibility it might be true. Finally, after failing to produce the home test (which she said she accidentally threw away), failing to let me speak with her doctor or even tell me who it was or where the office was located, I told her she was nuts and that I wasn't interested in participating in her ruse. Flash forward several months and I come to find out from mutual friends and aquintences she told them she was pregnant with my child, I abondoned her and that she had miscarried only one week after I left leaving her scarred. This is unbelieveable that someone would go through such drawn out deception for such a long time. What can I do to prove her accusations were nothing more than the vengeful, deceiptful hoax it all was?

 

angela1986 - July 6

Well considering you have no proof of the false pregnancy i would see it to be fairly hard to prove it you know what im saying. But your right it is sad and deceptive to carry on such a huge lie especially when a child is involved. It sounds to me that she was desperate to keep you in her life and was willing to try anything for that to happen. I hear about it everyday i actually have a friend whose ex girlfriend stopped using her bcp to get pregnant to keep him around. Needless to say it work and she's due sometime next month poor guy and im sorry to hear that it has happened to you. Some women can be so cruel. You know that she wasnt if she wasnt willing to give you the positive test or tell you the doctors name so i guess that just has to be good enough.

 

Joe - July 6

Thanks for your comments. I don't think I've ever felt so powerless. One more thing...after saying she was pregnant she chose to run consecutive 3.1 mile running races on 85+ degree days over the following weekend. Then I learned she ran a running race only two days after her miscarriage and another two days after that while going out for beers after each of them. Hardly the actions of a woman who actually went through the ordeal.

 

TOGIRL - July 6

Well joe i agree with angela the fact she didn't want to produce a pregnancy test is proof and the fact that the test she did in front of you was neg proves she wasn't and i have been through a m/c and i am telling you the last thing you want to do is run in race

 

TOGIRL - July 6

think of it this way you are one of the lucky ones i have seen guys go through the same situation and end uo marrying the girl so really you are lucky to get out

 

angela1986 - July 6

Exactly what TOGIRL said after that kind of an ordeal i cant imagine wanting to go for a run but once again im truly sorry you had to go through that.

 

chandellina - July 6

it's sad that she felt this would somehow get you to take her back. i wouldn't worry about disproving her allegations because mutual friends can probably figure it out for themselves.

 

Emma2 - July 6

I dont see why you need to even bother explaining yourself....Bottom line is, your friends know you and the truth and there is no need to explain yourself. If you innocent then just move on and let it go.

 

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