Going To Wait

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emtcutie1028 - January 16

So after 6 months of trying my boyfriend and I have decided to work on our relationship and stop trying. He wanted me to get back on BC, but we are going to try again in 6 months. I told him I didnt want to get back on BC for the simple fact of it screwing up my body again plus when we want to try it will be longer. So we are going with the abstience thing...lets see how long that lasts with him haha! It hurts a little that he doesnt want to try anymore right now, but I understand. Anyone been or is in the same boat as me?

 

BrendaW - January 17

yes, it is devastating and very hard on a relationship if not mutual. Some guys freak out or have brief insecurity issues if it takes too long. i had to actually leave my BF before he changed his mind BACK to having kids. It was a very hard ordeal. At least he is only saying he wants a break, mine said NO ABSOLUTELY NEVER lol we are trying again :). maybe just the stress free just do it and what ever happens happens thing would help the stress levels as well and not put too much pressure on your relationship until you are both ready to try. I dont see the whole abstinence thing working for very long, now THAT can stress a relationship too! Good Luck

 

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