Grandpa Or Ladys Please

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jo - March 21

Can some one tell me why fetal dimise happens

 

no patience! - March 21

I'd like to know as well.

 

jo - March 21

please

 

La Rae - March 21

I found this link - I hope it helps. http://www.obfocus.com/SanGabriel/guidelines/iufd.htm Just copy and paste it to your browser up top, and click enter or go. If this question is being asked by you, because you have experienced this, or know someone who has - I am truly sorry. My heart goes out to you....

 

jo - March 21

its for me and thank you .it happen in my 18th week

 

La Rae - March 21

I noticed there was a dash added between the s and the a in san gabriel - you gotta take that out before you click enter or go. I am so so sorry to hear that you have gone through such a painful experience. Has your doctor been much help in giving you any answers? I hope and pray that you have plenty of support from families and friends. To someone who hasn't gone through this, it'll be hard for them to fully understand your pain....

 

jo - March 21

its been very hard the drs tell me it happens that something thing was wrong but up untill that point every thing was going well

 

La Rae - March 21

I do believe that 'Everything happens for a Reason'. However....I know that even if there are reasons for some things that happen to us or to someone we know and love - that doesn't mean that we will ever get to know what that reason 'Is'. I do believe in God - and I wish I could say that I know why He 'allowed' this to happen to you. But the truth is - I don't believe that God allows things to happen TO us. He allows them to happen FOR us. I don't know why really bad and awful things happen to some people, and yet there seem to be people that go their entire lives without really experiencing 'True' 'Emotional' pain. I wouldn't consider them 'Lucky' - they're just people whom maybe God knew couldn't 'Handle' it - you know? Anyways... I am babbling on and on. I myself, have not gone thru what you have gone thru - BUT I have had experiences in my life to where I thought I couldn't bear the pain - that the pain was too much and I wasn't going to 'make it'. Please, please, please....hang in there and please feel free to email me at [email protected] - hopefully I can email you back - yahoo has been screwing up on me lately. If you ever need someone to just 'vent to' - please don't hesitate to email me, ok?

 

jo - March 21

thank you for being do kind

 

La Rae - March 22

Hey....no problem. That is what we're here for. There are a great bunch of ladies (and Grandpa's) on this board who supported me through my 'trivial' b.s. when I thought I was pg - and then I started having probs with my (soon to be) ex. Anyways....My heart goes out to anyone who is going through a tough, emotional, and trying time - I know what it feels like to feel 'alone' and 'without answers', you know? It's really HARD to get thru life sometimes - but if you have someone or a lot of someone's to help you through it - that makes it just a little bit easier. You just have to hang on and BELIEVE that you will be at a better place in your life later on and that you will be able to look back and be proud of the fact that you didn't 'give up' and that you are still trying, you know? Sorry, I like to babble.... Please don't hesitate to email me if you need to, ok? God Bless you and your family. You WILL get through this - trust me - trust God (although I know that sometimes that can be hard to do when you feel like He's let you down - he hasn't though - he's holding you up, believe me).

 

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