HE HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FROM EX BUT THINK IM PREGGO

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DEE - February 2

Well, this is my story: Today( Feb. 1st) I found out my man told me that the mother of his daughter is taking him to court for child support since she don't work. And he was really p___sed off, and I was p___sed because he really don't be buying me things or taking me out, but we good as in love. But anyway, I have been 11 days late from which my period was suppose to occur. SO basically, I think I'm pregnant and scare to admit it. But I don't know if I should tell him because he is already going thru his mess with his daughter's mother. And he said if I got pregnant again with his child, he wants to go thru the whole pregnancy thing with me and it would be his first own delivery. ( I was pregnant with his child before but aborted because of our problems). So what should I do???

 

k - February 2

you should do a test then just tell him

 

DUH - February 2

You should use PROTECTION!! AND QUIT GETTING PREGNANT AND ABORTING!! IT'S NOT A GAME

 

B'Lana - February 2

Dee, your pregnancy is not going to change the fact that he has to pay childsupport. Even if you have 10 children, he still has to pay. I would wait telling him that you are pregnant till you know for sure, or tell him you MIGHT be pg... That should brighten his day if he wants to have children from you :) BTW, if the mother doesn't work, you may have a chance of getting his daughter and raising her ;) sometimes courts to that if parent decides that she doesn't need to work... :)

 

JM - February 2

You need to tell him honesty is the best policy always. Besides if he didn't want more children he should have protected himself and I agree with the last gal who said regardless how many children he has he still has to pay child support!

 

hope - February 2

it doesnt sound as if a baby would be a good idea at this point...i mean if you are not pregnant you should use protectiion until things get better in your life... goodluck to you and i hope everything works out...

 

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