Help How To Tell Him

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Kisskiss - October 10

here is my situation, ive been dating this guy for 3 months we just started having s_x within the past month. I am on tri-cyclen lo BC pills and we do use condoms except for 3 times and he pulled out(stupid i know but i figured ive been on BC before and never got pregnant). well i found out today im pregnant. at one point a couple weeks ago before even thinking it was a possibility i had tried bringing up the topic of what happens if i get pregnant and he just said we would cross that road later. I already have a daughter who is 2 and he's just recently met her. I have no idea how to tell him, no idea where to start, and no idea of what kind of reaction to even begin to expect. Im scared to tell him cause i dont know what his feeling on it are at all, and don't want to end up being the single mom of 2. i already know i do not want an abortion and im not sure if i could even think of giving a baby up. Any advice on how to let him know would be awesome, cause im at a loss.

 

Grandpa Viv - October 11

Congratulations! Wow, BC pills plus condoms or pull-out, and still you got pregnant? Did you skip any pills? Were you on antibiotics or any other kind of meds, even Tylenol? How about "Honey, I'm sorry, but we're going to have to cross that road you were talking about." Does one do this in a txt msg these days, to give him time to think about his reaction, and not say something you will both regret?

 

Kisskiss - October 11

I know, its hard to believe it still happened, but i didn't miss any pills nor was i on any antibiotics. i take vitamins but my doctor knew about all those when i started, unless for some reason my anti-anxiety meds affect my BC which again she put me on both so.... thanks for the advice grandpa viv, reading all the posts you have made you seems like you give great advice. now the next or other question that has popped into my mine is should i do it now or next weekend my daughter is going to her dads this week and me and the bf are going away for 4 days for his work and i dont know if it would be better for him to know before we go or once we get back.

 

Grandpa Viv - October 11

Just for the heck of it, what are the anxiety pills you are taking? I would like to research that a little. I know your situation is very much on your mind. It will be on his mind, too, once you tell him. Why not leave it until after his business work is over, so he can stay focused. Go have a wonderful weekend, and try not to throw up in the morning - lol.

 

Kisskiss - October 11

I take cipralex. Ok i will try and keep the vomit minimal lol and enjoy my mini vaca.

 

Grandpa Viv - October 11

From depression-guide.com "Tell your doctor if you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, or are b___st-feeding. If you become pregnant while taking Cipralex, call your doctor immediately."

 

Grandpa Viv - October 11

There is nothing on Cipralex reducing the effectiveness of BC pills. However, the side effects of Cipralex are in some ways similar to early pregnancy. If you have been taking it for some time and know the side effects, no problem. If there is any chance that you are confusing the two, another pregnancy test would be a good double check.

 

Kisskiss - October 11

i have stopped taking the pills cause i know you shouldn't be on them while pregnant i tend to read about all my meds before i'll start taking them, and id been on them for 5-6 months so i got used to all the side effects it gave me and didn't even notice them after a while. i took another test to night cause i had one left and its still saying pos. gotta call tomorrow and make an appt with my doctor.

 

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