Help Me Find Out If She Is Or Not

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racmop - March 4

Okay here is the deal she is 15 and I am 16 we had s_x on feb 9th which was 2 days after her period. her period is or was supposed to start march 2 and well it is 3 days late now we took a home test on Febuary 20th and it came out negative? was it to early to test cause now she is late and besides that she is showing many symptoms such as, back pains, leg pains, stomache pains, light headness, has to pee like 8-9 times a day(she ussuall never has to pee that much) she is having some mood swings and well her period hasnt come yet...what is she negative or post_tive?

 

krissy2006 - March 4

First you don't need to post the question twice and two we can't help you find out. All we can do is speculate. She should be discussing this with her parents. Buy her a pregnancy test. You can get them for $1 each at the dollar tree. That is the only true way to know. All the symptoms you listed are good symptoms of pregnany BUT they are also good symptoms of PMS, and her period on her way and VERY good symptoms of just being a normal teenager with random hormone fluctuations.

 

krissy2006 - March 4

Yes the test you took was waaayyy too early. Test now. again

 

racmop - March 4

can someone stay in here and talk to me about this please.

 

Grandpa Viv - March 4

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racmop - March 4

how do I add you to msn

 

racmop - March 4

Xx_RACMOP_xX at hotmail you now k

 

sososleepy - March 4

racmop... as a parent, I have to say aren't you both a little young for that? As a previous teenager, I'd suggest a combination of condoms and spermicide, a diaphragm, or birth control pills. Symptoms can be greatly misleading, and caused by a mult_tude of other things, although throwing up yellow bile a few times a day for several days in a row is a good clue early on. Get her a pregnancy test and have her use it with first morning urine; once her period is a few days late it should show positive if she is pg. For a few women, two days after her period can get them pregnant; for most it can't. It depends on how long her cycle is and when she ovulated. As a parent, I'd want to know. I might go nuts and yell for a bit, but I'd want to know and be a part of the decisions my child made in your position; if she is, consider giving your moms a chance there, they might surprise you. My best guess just based on the timing is that you have a decent chance that she isn't. Use that as a lesson to be very much more careful in the future.... Good luck!

 

racmop - March 4

Well we both want this

 

Wellis10 - March 4

If you guys are pregnant...congratulations!!!! I know that you said you wanted this.....where you guys trying to get pregnant?

 

LIN - March 4

What a joke. Congratulations are never in order for children getting pregnant. I don't care how smart they are, NO 15 or 16 years old knows what they want out of life. Children having children is how ignorance is perpetuated.

 

krissy2006 - March 4

Though harsh words may be hard to hear, I agree whole heartedly with LIN

 

Wellis10 - March 4

I agree that childern shouldn't get pregnant. But if it has happened what can you do. I was just trying to be alittle postive for them. They need help not negative lectures...that is why this forum is here...to get help, answers to your questions...not to judge people. Everyone has made mistakes in their lives. No one is prefect. If young people could talk more openly to others without being judged then maybe they wouldn't be curious to try it.

 

racmop - March 4

you know i know what i want with life...and so does she were ready thats why im here for positive enforcment

 

Wellis10 - March 4

racmop - I know that you think that you are ready but let me ask you something.....On a postive note.....Your 15...are you going to graduate high school...do you plan to go to college. If not ...what kind of job are you going to get at 15. Do youlive with your parents? I know that in some states if you are a minor that your parents have full custody of any child that you may have until you are 18. Do your parnets support you in your plans? If not where are you going to live with this baby? Have you thought about any of this?

 

krissy2006 - March 4

racmop, though you don't believe it positive reinforcement is what you are lacking. Somewhere and by us encouraging you to make a baby at your age with a girl who is even younger would not only not be "positive reinforcement" it would be downright wrong to do as mature adults. Wellis, you are right. What is done is done, but if she isn't pregnant, there is no reason to continue encouraging it. 15 and 16 yr olds should NOT have babies. Not only do they NOT know what they are doing but the innocent child they are bringing into the world doesn't deserve such inexperienced, immature and obviously "lacking in some area of their lives" children as their parents. You will get no encouragement from me, which in turn I believe is positive reinforcement. If a huge majority of people believe something is wrong, it probably is and I'll bet you EVERYONE who is a MATURE ADULT on this particular forum will tell you you need to stop thinking about having a child.

 

racmop - March 4

im 16... and our parents are behind us all the way

 

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