Help Pls Grandpa Vive I Think I M Having A M C

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chriss - March 7

Ok, I am really confused. I waited until 5 days after my missed period and took a pregnancy test and it came back positive, well with a really light second line, but one nonetheless. Anyway, the next morning, (sat.) I started to spot and then it got heavier throughout the day with cramps which lead me to believe that something was wrong. That night I took another test and the line was even lighter (almost not there) more bleeding and then this morning first thing I took another test and no line. Does this mean that I have had a m/c. I haven't really blead alot, I mean not more than a normal period, but this isn't a period, the cramps in my stomache are alot different and it kinds of hurts to breathe. Do I need to go to the Doctor?? I am really concerned that because I have such short and light periods that I will have a difficult time getting pregnant. Please help!! any advice would be greatly appreciated.

 

Grandpa Viv - March 7

Chriss, what you are suggesting makes sense, I'm afraid to say. With the tests going -ive it's a little much to hope that it is bleeding during pregnancy. What a disappointment! You can keep your fingers crossed, but at the same time recognize it's possible that your body decided this one was not a keeper. It happens quite frequently - part of the quality control process - and we should be glad that process is in place. It won't affect your chances next time around one way or the other. You can call the doc and explain the situation, but my guess is she will say not to worry unless you feel something is amiss. Test again next weekend to be sure you have interpreted the situation correctly. Where did you get the idea that light periods equal difficult to conceive - first time I've heard that. Lots of luck!

 

chriss - March 7

Thank you so much for your response. Noone really told me that light periods equals difficult to conceive. I guess when something like this happens you kind of feel responsible in some way. I mean, I know in my head that it's not my fault, but my heart is trying to rationalize and I know that I will drive myself insane doing this but............ Anyway, I have made a Doctor's appointment for tonight after work! Thanks so much Grandpa Viv, so I added the e to the end of your name in the subject line, must be the french in me! Thanks again.

 

tay - March 7

hello chriss, my prayers are with you along with my baby dust.

 

chriss - March 7

Thank you tay! It is very difficult, my husband and I have been trying for seven months for our first child and we finally thought it happened. I guess I am still in a bit of shock over the whole thing.

 

tay - March 7

well if you need anything just let me know ok? i will keep you in my thoughts and prayers..and maybe next month will be the magic month!

 

Jules - March 7

Hey Chriss - I am so sorry to hear this. I have followed many of your posts and can only imagine just how shattered you and DH must feel now. Truly - I send you all my love and wishes for strength and comfort to you. Rest a__sured that what GViv said is true - we can be thankful that nature has such controls in place. And don't beat yourself up about it - if you've taken good care of you then you've done all that you can. I've read your posts and you're pa__sionate about the baby that you will have one day so I know that you'll do all you can to take good care of it - and yourself! Best wishes and loads of hugs to you *****

 

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