Hope You Are OK La Rae

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johanna - March 3

hi la rae: not checking in so often now. i have about another, oh, 8-9 days until ovulation, but i'm checking with opks to make sure that i don't miss it. anyways, just wanted to check in and see how you were doing, if you figured out the pregnancy thing, and what is going on with your husband. i'm really sorry it has been such a rollercoaster for you! take care! *bug hug*

 

La Rae - March 3

Hey Johanna - I'm doing ok, how about you? I am really believing at this point that I am not pregnant. That's cool in a way, because I am tired of this rollercoaster! I like fast rides, bumpy rides, and loopy rides, but there are only so many you can take before you just need to go rest your b___t on a park bench and take a breather, you know? I feel for you Johanna - I really do. I would be in a padded cell right now if my cycles were as long as yours. Have you used opks before? If I were you I'd start that baby dancing every night starting 4 days from now - and go for a full 8 days. I know that 'they' say every other night, but when I got pg with my son, it was every night, believe me! Mmmmm....those were the days - oh yeah! My sons' dad and I still talk, btw and recently - he has told me that he wants me back. (uh-oh! More Jerry Springer). I gotta get divorced first - and I am not ready to do that. I hate it when you have turmoil in your life and someone comes along and adds to it! It sucks....but I'll get thru it. I sincerely hope and pray that this is your last cycle of ttc. Fingers and toes are crossed for you! Take care....and God Bless!

 

johanna - March 3

besides what all these men in your life want, WHAT DO YOU WANT? do you want to try being alone for a while? do you just want to have some space, or do you possibly want to be with your ex? regardless, i'm sorry to hear you don't think you are pregnant. we had quite some energy there at the beginning of february, eh, talking about it all the time? well, we'll see what happens. i'm trying to be less stressed, do more exercise, and we'll try to BD pretty regularly around ovulation. problem: hubby has a business trip out of state. #$^%&*(). ah well. i've used OPKs before, and tend to have 2 positive days. plus, i'm charting, checking my cervix, and my CM, so maybe it'll work. Big hug, good luck, and be in touch. be nice to yourself!

 

La Rae - March 3

Johanna, I don't know WHAT I want. I know I want to have one more child before I'm all 'dried up' - but, do I want to have a child with my hub anymore? Yeah....I do. I can't help it. I know that I have made him sound like a jacka__s (without really trying). But he isn't all that bad. I guess he is panicking because he thinks I am too old to have a kid. Oh, and he hasn't had his sperm tested, Sugarpie - no. If I told you guys how old he is - you'd FREAK! Don't get me wrong....he IS a legal adult and all - but I AM a few years older than him. I know he loves me - he just wants to have a child of his own so bad that he can't think straight right now. I am kind of like that right now myself. Well, Jo - I better go. I wish you all the best with your baby dancing and all that. Do it as much as you can possibly STAND!! You go girl! Talk to ya' later....

 

mulgajill - March 3

LaRae... i'm sure your hub is a great guy, but hell, they do drive us crazy at times.... mine is mildly irritating a lot of the time but i wouldn't swap him...he's a couple years younger... and nothing wrong with having a bit of a gripe on the net, not like they can hear it!!! And you are certainly not getting 'dried up'....I didn't even think of starting on babies until i was 34, next at 38 and now.... well i'm getting a bit dried up but it's not going to stop me trying... if no luck this week will go and see the fertility doctor... have a referal tucked in my bag.... :-)

 

johanna - March 4

la rae, things will work out. i know they will. for both of us, for all of us! in the meanwhile, be strong, be nice to yourself. none of us here are going to judge you, whatever decision you make. of course you want a child, of course you don't necessarily want to raise him/her alone. and venting about men? that's what this place is for, among other things! good luck, big hug, and have a good weekend!

 

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