How Can I Help My 15 Year Old Friend Who S Pregnant

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Worried - July 28

Hi, my best friend is 15 years old and we have reason to beleive that she is pregnant. I don't know how I can support her or give her advice because I know that her teenage years are now over becuase of a choice she made. Her parents are very stricked and they didnt even know that she has a boyfriend. I am constantly worried about her but she seems not to care...

 

To Worried - July 28

You can be the best friend that you can to her. Talk her into telling her parents that she is pregnant. You dont have to give her adivce, or support her, but I'm sure that she needs a friend right now...just be there for her and maybe she will tell her parents and they will help her in anyway they can....its hard to tell...Good Luck!

 

kari - July 28

I was the "friend" that thought she was pregnant in High School....I can tell you what I needed and maybe it can help her....I felt like it wasn't real, like how could that happen to me? so it was hard to ask for help for something I wasn't even ready to admit I had....I needed my friend to be there at the moment where it did become real and she was my safe place to fall when it did happen. For 2 months I thought I was pregnant....then I started and I wasn't, however, 2 months is a long time to think you are and I felt like I lost it almost...wierd I know, but I had not told my mom either, just my boyfriend (now my husband), he was supportive but I really needed a female friend to talk to and that is where she came in....the best thing you can do is just be there and support her no matter what she does. I hope I have helped you.

 

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