How To Break The News To Bf

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Karen - January 6

My bf and I live together and he has always said that we both know what "might" happen even though I am on the pill and that he would always be there for me. But I will find out tomorrow if I am for sure or not and he has no idea that I may think I am, all he knows is that I have not started yet, and he knows this because I had the signs that I was going to and then didn't. If I end up pg how do I tell him? I don't know why I am scared, he said he would always be there, and I think I am scared for no reason. We weren't "trying" to, and I feel that this might not be the ideal time, but if I am I am and we will both be happy and live with it. . .I still just don't know how to tell him, any suggestions?

 

tiffani - January 6

I would tell him you suspect you could be and take a hpt test at home and watch the results together.

 

Karen - January 6

I am scared to even do that, ha ha. And what if for some reason I find out on my own that I am and then watching the results together come out negative? that would be a hard thing to deal with.

 

tiffani - January 6

I don't think you're going to find an easy way, but I definitely know how anxious you feel. You could do like I did when I found out and wrap the test up and give it to him as a present. That takes the stress out of having to tell him face to face. Or.... leave it (the test stick) on the kitchen table for him to find when he gets home from work- or better yet, if he's like my husband , he's more likely to see it if it's on the remote. lol Go shopping or to a friends house, give him time to open it, process what's happening and come to terms with the facts, then go home and talk to him.

 

Lucky1 - January 6

I think you should do a HPT when he's not home. Don't tell him until you have something to tell him. Honestly what signs are you having? The pill is usually pretty effective (unless you missed a few somewhere along the line). If you get a positive, then tell him. Girl, it takes two, he can't get mad..... I didn't know how my DH(dear hubby or designated humper, lol) would react, but I know him well enough to know that he wouldn't freak out. Trust me, if you two are already living together, you have no reason to be scared. Just don't tell him until you are sure you are. Ok, girl, you will be alright.

 

Karen - January 6

Thanks for all the advice, I guess I do what just comes out of the mouth.

 

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