I Am Going Crazy Waiting HELLLLPPPPPPP

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krissy2006 - January 15

Why haven't I O'd yet? Is it my stressful job? I felt like I BDed and took soy and everything perfectly this month. I had lots and lots of EWCM and even O cramps and now I have creamy CM and no cramps and its like it all blew over without the climax... why the h__l am I not ovulating!!! BTW I am sooo quitting my job today. I can't take it anymore... now I just have to wait for one of the big bosses to come in

 

krissy2006 - January 15

BTW, fertilityfriend.com/home/krissy2006

 

DaBonkElsMe - January 15

Seriously stress delays ovulation. Without a doubt. It's a fact. You can get all of the signs but until you relax that egg is not coming out!! Maybe quitting your job is just exasctly what you need. My cousin told me she tried for a long time to get pregnant with her first and it wasn't until she quit her very stressful job that she actually concieved! The very NEXT MONTH in fact!! Coincidance? I think not!

 

krissy2006 - January 15

LOL, thanks dabonk. I have only been at this job or 3 weeks but it is taking its toll. I go home with an upset stomach every day!!! So like I said I am on my way out the door... but the "big wig" just called and informed me she broke her arm last night and won't be in. So I'll have to wait for a littler "big wig" to come into the office. But you are so right! Stress (especially the kind that makes you physically ill) cannot be good for TTC!!!! Thanks again. :)

 

Megs - January 15

I agree completely with Dabonk!! Krissy, if at all possible, QUIT THAT JOB and find one that is a whole lot less stressful!!! Not only with TTC but so many other areas of our life can be altered by stress. So sorry honey you are suffereing through this!!!! :-(

 

krissy2006 - January 15

Thanks Megs, I knew I could depend on you ladies to support me. DH totally supports me quitting and is even wanting me to just stay home so we can get PG. LOL... Only a few months ago he wanted me to work work work even after we had kids. But I think TTC and the thought of becoming a daddy is softening him. I told him that there were no ifs ands or buts though. I will work into my pregnancy and then WILL NOT work after. In any case, no one is in yet!!!! Jeez, can't a person quit like a decent employee!!! I don't want to have to leave a letter of resignation on my desk. Although that would be less stressful huh? Less confrontation=less stressful!! Hmmmm . . .

 

Megs - January 15

Are you going to do a two weeks and work through it or just screw them?? LOL

 

Megs - January 15

Krissy, that'd be wonderful for you to really "concentrate" on getting that BFP!!! ;-) I am REALLY happy Dh is supporting you through and through with this. That's always nice to have. (Even in good times!)

 

lissica - January 15

i'm new at tempting but could it be possible you O'd yesterday? It doesn't always have to be a big temp jump does it?

 

BrendaW - January 15

You'll have to wait a couple days to see if your temps go up but you may see your O day as CD13- not to unnatural. Good luck with the quitting thing. what do you do?

 

Michelle_in_PDX - January 15

Krissy, dabonks is right, stress is totally related--I am taking a leave from my job because I think it is causing my body to say, "unh unh, girl-friend, you are NOT getting preggo until you calm down." I think that any stress just makes your whole body tense up and that can't be ideal for a little fertilized egg to want to implant. at least I think that's what's been happening with me. Krissy, I think your DH sounds awesome--my DH is also very supportive, and that makes these tough decisions less difficult (though not easy). I hope you O soon, girl! Drink lots of water, do yoga, and watch comedies! That's what my acupuncturist told me!

 

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