I HAVE A REALLY BIG MASSIVE PROBLEM

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T - November 1

me and my boyfriend have been having unprotected s_x for 8 months now and i have not yet got pregnant. we have been together nearly 11 months, well we split up on the 23rd of october and on the 24th of october i slept with another man and he c_mmed inside me. then me and my boyfriend got back together on the 26th and he still doesnt know that i spelt with someone else. i just went onto www.mymonthlycycles.com because i track my periods on there and it tells me when i ovulate and it says that i ovulated on the 24th of october and that was the day i slept with somebody else. Its too early to tell weither i am pregnant or not cause it was only a week ago. do you think i could be pregnant?

 

citrouille - November 1

You could be, but lots of women try to get pregnant and it takes them months! Don't panic but figure out when you should get your period and if you're late take a test to be sure. Did you have any signs of ovulation at the time? ie, stringy clear mucus? good luck

 

T - November 1

i dont know cause i was a little drunk that weekend cause i was depressed when me and my boyfriend split up. i should get it on the 7th of this month. i hope i get it so much, i dont want to be pregnant with the other man i want to be pregnant with my boyfriend. how early would you get pregnancy signs?

 

Viv - November 1

Signs of early pregnancy start about a week after ovulation. If they are not with you in the next day or two, this will likely make 9 months of unprotected s_x without a pregnancy.

 

T - November 1

ok thanks, what sort of signs should i be looking for over the next few days?

 

citrouille - November 1

from what I've read from others: peeing more, swollen b___sts, sore nipples, more bumps arounds nipples, bloating, cramps, nausea, headaches...

 

T - November 1

ok then ill look out for those symptoms, thanks alot citrouille and viv x x x x x

 

m - November 1

I just want to add something. Symptoms can happen that quickly. However, in some women there are NO symptoms in the beginning. With my youngest son, and with both miscarriages, my symptoms came on quick. But with my first son, I had no symptoms until about 2 months. So even if you don't get symptoms in the next few days, please don't a__sume you aren't pregnant. Because you still could be. If you miss your period, or if your period seems lighter or different than usual, take a test and see a doc.

 

citrouille - November 1

rightly said m, I was just mentioning possible signs but it is true that you might not necessarily get any sign before quite a while. I'm not an expert anyway, I've got some signs myself but don't know yet if i'm pregnant!

 

T - November 1

ok thanks alot M. i should be on a week today, i really dont want to wait that long until i can find out weither i am or not, its worrying me sick cause i think that if i was pregnant my boyfriend would click on that its not his. is there any other way i can tell weither i am pregnant or not a week before my period?

 

citrouille - November 1

I've had a blood test done (4 days before date when I should get my period) because I told that it could be effective.. so that would be your best bet, but make sure it is a beta hcg test that measures the levels of hcg! However, if you read other messages you'll see that people get negs when they're really preg.. First response which you buy in the drugstore is supposed to detect levels of hcg in your urine 4 days before but I'm not sure how effective it really is!

 

T - November 1

im hoping for some sort of miracle like im already pregnant with my boyfriend lol i thought i was but then i got my period but then carried on getting pregnancy symptoms. the other night i had s_x with my boyfriend, after i slept with the other man and i got a really nasty sharp horrible pain in the left side of my stomach when he pushed his p___s in too far, is this a sign?

 

Lily - November 1

Well it's too early to know for definite. If you are pregnant, there's no way of definitely knowing who the father is till birth so let's hope you are nor pregnant so you don't have 9 months of stress!! Maybe worth going for an STD check because of the other guy? Btw thanks for that website address, it looks really interesting.

 

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