Im So Confused Really Need Advise Please Help Asap

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funks - October 31

right the thing is.....i had unprotected s_x 2 weeks ago...i was expecting my period to start this monday that jus gone.but the thing is it never actually came,.i bled nothing more than a pea size drop...i am on the pill and i have done 2 pregnancy tests and both say i am not pregnant but why didnt my period come this time? please help..my life is all messed up with this.

 

a - October 31

Have you been on the pill long? Because if you are in your first couple of months you may not be regular yet. I would suggest calling your doctor and getting a blood pregnancy test.

 

funks - October 31

i have been on the pill for year and a bit now..i am soo scared.i am only 17 and i will get kicked out the house if my parents find me pregnant. i had 2 tests but both saying i am NOT but i jus dont understand y my period didnt come.

 

a - October 31

Try calling Planned Parenthood. I had a scare when I was 18. They were anonymous and affordable (No one ever found out that I went). If you have a way to get there you could go have an appointment and get a blood test right away. I was able to get in the next day when I called. Don't forget, the pill is not 100% effective, and it does not prevent against STDs (you never know who might have one, even if the guy swears you're the only one and you believe him), so you should always use a condom too. If the guy doesn't want to, then don't tell him you're on the pill. Let that be your "safety net", no one else needs to know.

 

funks - October 31

never heard of planned parenthood...i am so scared.its like my discharge is not white but a dull colour does that mean anything at all? the past 2 weeks i have been crying every night.i jus dont want to find out that i am pregnant. i was brought up well in a middle cla__s family and i respect every one especially my parents and for me to be pregnant is a really big thing. to be honest..i wud rather die than to be pregnant...do u no how reliable pregnancy tests are? with me doing two i wud think it wud be more reliable.....i hate my life..

 

citrouille - November 1

funks -you sound very depressed and worried. I understand but don't panic, there could be other reasons for missing a period. Planned parenthood is anonymous and where you can talk to people, get preg tests etc. Try to look in the phone book at s_x clinic or something like that. Can you see your doctor without your parents knowing? If you can i would advise you to do that. I also think you should talk to someone that you trust. You may think that your parents will react worse than they really will. Just try not to worry and do another test in a bit. Let me know how things go and know that being pregnant wouldn't be the end of the world!

 

Viv - November 1

I wouldn't call s_x while on the pill "unprotected". Evidently you believe in pill+condom, which is excellent. You went into a blue funk the day after you had no-condom s_x and have been crying yourself to sleep every night. As long as you have been taking the pill regularly I think you should try to relax and see what happens. You have no pregnancy symptoms, and no positive tests. Keep taking the pill as prescribed and keep using the condoms too. I'm pretty sure things will sort themselves out.

 

Lily - November 1

funks, planned parenthood is in america, in the UK call the brook advisory. if you are on the pill, your periods aren't proper periods but withdrawal bleeds. if you are on combined pill you should not be ovulating anyway but if you are on the mini pill then you will be (i.e. chances of being pregnant are higher with the latter). it seems highly unlikely you are pregnant but you should try testing. if you can afford to buy some tests try and get clearblue easy (not the colour change one as that is less sensitive than the easy one) and test no less than 19 days after you had s_x. or just go to your family planning clinic or call brook advisory and you should be able to get free pregnancy testing.

 

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