Is He In Denial

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Erica - February 24

Ok, I am not on any kind of BC and hubby doesn't like to wear " sleeping bags", if u KWIM .Within the past 3 mths my belly has doubled and he makes nice comments about my belly( only) getting bigger,but he blames my diet.Do u think he could just be in denial or what? I know he secretly notices everything that goes around him and is very observative. I thought for someone that meticulous and observative, i wonder how come he hasn't asked me if i'm not pregnant ! What do u think ?

 

Niki - February 24

Thats a typical male. My husband new about the postive hpt but he didn't believe it until he saw the U/S.

 

Trixie - February 24

hi Erica.. may b u are rite.. or may b he is w aiting for u to tell him..when was ur last AF...have u tested yet

 

Erica - February 24

Hi girls ! I have tested but all -ve , but he doesn't know as i don'tt want to say anything until i am 100 % sure.I am going for a sonogram next week. We have 2 kids and i know he knows something is up , but he doesn't mention anything to me...yet! Last af was 28 last month but was light , short and stringy, not normal for me. Oh and everybody around me is asking me if i'm pregnant,but the man i'm living with is not asking ! MEN !!!!!!

 

trixie - February 24

hahaha thts men!! we hate them .. we love them... hang in there

 

Erica - February 24

Trixie, i hear ya , can't live with, can't kill them !! LOL They say the same about us !!!

 

trixie - February 24

you betcha!.. keep me posted gal.. n b positive. lots of smiles n babydust

 

Erica - February 24

Yep, Trixie , i'll keep u posted.( since ur the only one who seems interested ,LOL ).Good luck to u .R U preggo yet or ttc ?

 

MandyD - February 24

Hey Erica...it's just a man thing for sure!!! Even if you wrote it on a sign and held it right in front of his face....it wouldn't matter!! LOL : ) Good luck girl!

 

Erica - February 24

Hey Mandy, yeh ur right men sometimes.... Like i said we have 2 kids and last time i was preggo, I was the one in denial and HE was the one convincing me i was . But now ,funnily enough is able to see that i am unnaturally putting on weight etc...but no, of course i can't be preggo ! It could be that he is slowly getting used to the idea that well, he is gonna be a dad again ! Good luck to u too !

 

Trixie - February 24

hi Erica.. am TTC n HTBP(hope to b preggy) :)

 

Erica - February 24

Hey Trixie, I hope ur preggo as well.How long have u been TTC ? I know some w/m get pg just by looking at the p___s LOL and some they can BD day & night everyday with no luck.It sucks i know ! Lots of baby dust ur way ****

 

bump - February 24

bump

 

trixie - February 24

erica i am totally with u!

 

Erica - February 25

Hey Trixie, did u find out yet if ur preggo ? I'm wondering.....

 

Coco - February 26

Hi Erica, i don't know u or ur husbabnd personnally , but i would say he definately knows more than he would certainly admit.If he states that ur belly has grown and u added that he's observative, and ur not using any BC,well,it's just a matter of time before he comfronts u with the issue. It could be that either he's scared or he wants u to be open about it.Either way, good luck to u girl !

 

Trixie - February 26

hey Erica! no sweets i havent tested yet.. am too nervous to check.. but i did manage to get an appointment with my gynaec on 3rd march.will come to know wot is it then..(hopefully).wot abt u.. have u tested!!!

 

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