Is It Wishful Thinking

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Ashleigh - June 9

I am 42 days late. I'm 21 & married and hoping for a child. I'm having pregnancy symptoms such as sore br___ts, white discharge, strange cravings for different foods, abdominal pains that are sharp at times, heartburn, blurred vision at times, and for about a month or so i haven't been able to get myself up out of bed in the morning. I have taken 2 HPT and they both turned out neg. which i know that they could possibly be wrong. I'm scared to go to the dr. b/c it could just all be in my head. But it would be such a blessing if I were preg. just to know that we are able to have kids. So could it just be me wanting it too much?

 

kg - June 9

no, i would go to the dr. wouldn't you rather know and start taking the best possible care for you and your baby. best wishes.

 

val - June 9

42 days is really late...I would definately go to the dr. and get a Quant_tative blood test done, and even if that shows up negative, maybe the dr will be able to help you find out why you are so late. Some women don't show up on hpt's for some reason...it's rare, but it does happen. Good luck.

 

Soph - June 9

I agree with kg, if you are in deed pg you have to start prenatal care right away, and if you are not at least you won't be living with the uncertainty, which can drive a person insane, specially when ttc, besides maybe the doctor can check why you are so late if you are not pg (hopefully you are!) So yes Ashleigh, do it, for your sanity and your baby's health. Hpts can be negative during an entire pregnancy and you have symptoms that sound pg like, but it will be way better to be sure, don't you think? and what if it's just on your head, the sooner you get rid of that, the sooner you can start ttc again, right? Baby dust to you!

 

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