Its Kim Need Advice

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kim j - January 13

There seems to be a few Kim now so I will start putting Kim J. Im the Kim who is crazy and thought I was preggo but got af 5 days late.lol Anyways here is my question. Dec I started my period on the 4th and was on it for about 5 days. We did it like rabbits all month. I thought I was preggo but my period was just 5 days late. So I started af on the 8th and it is fading away. It is so light that last night my hubby and I had s_x and this morning I am not needing to wear a tampoon. Sorry for the datails ladies.So to the point! when would I be most fertile this month. Last month we did it everyday sometimes even twice. I think we are going to try and do every other day this month. I dont want to skip the most fertile days so when would that be???? Thanks for your time and happy baby making!

 

kat - January 13

hi kim,think its the 22nd when you are likely to be most fertile,im at my fertile time now and you are a week behind me with af,have fun! :o)

 

KN - January 13

Kim, I totally thought that this was my month too. I had every symptom and then some, and even a late af. I don't get it. Anyways, to help you out a bit.... I have been getting some advice that I am going to try really hard to follow this month too: Try not to worry about it, when it happens it will happen ( I know that you want to do that anyways, I read a few of your posts!). Also, try to have intercourse every other day, and you are most fertile 1-2 days before ovulation, you make sure you get lots in before ovulation, not after. Also, try not to test until after af is late ( I also read that in your other posts!). That will save alot of dissapointment. If you do not get pregnant right away, don't panic. It takes on average 6 months or longer to get pregnant. It will happen! And, if you do everything perfect and at the right time (pillow under hips, lying down for 20 min after, having s_x with him on top....) it is also possible to think you have ovulated but sometimes an egg does not get released (believe it or not!). I know I am writing alot, but I have alot to say!! I hope this helps. We are on the same schedules, so maybe we can go through this together this month, but not as bad! Relax, take a deep breath, it will happen for us when we least expect it! :)

 

KN - January 13

One more thing, the mind is a powerful tool that can play tricks on you. And, af symptoms are really really similar to early pregnancy symptoms. If you never had certain symptoms before (pms), they can start at any time. This month was like that for me. I have never had any of this stuff happen before, but I am not pregnant. :)

 

Lucky1 - January 13

Seems like you've got a 35 day cycle, Dec. 4th to Jan 8th is 35 days. Before I try to calculate your best day for TTC, can you tell me when you got your period in November, if you can remember? I'm trying to get your average cycle length.

 

kim j - January 13

I am not to sure on the date. It was at the begining of the month... I THINK! It is gone today so I guess we will start trying again.. We did it last night aswell but af was still hanging around alittle. Know could I get pregnant before my most fertile days.. Like if we did it tonight what would be my chances? Anyone know?

 

Rachel - January 13

I don't think you can get pregnant right after AF, but the sperm can live inside for up to 5 days. So, I guess that's why they say to start trying after AF leaves and keep going until after you ovulate. Does this help? Sounds like you and your DH are having fun trying anyways ;)

 

kim j - January 13

thanks for your advice!!!

 

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