Just A Please Read

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anyone else - December 11

ok i am ttc and i really want a baby, but there are some days when i get scared and i talk myself out of it. i already have a child and i know i want another, but i really freak myself out the more i think about it. i had a c before and will have to have another due to large babies and small pelvis. i just talk myself out of it i mean some months i am gun ho and want a pos so badly and then like this month i think there is a good possibility i am pg and i am scared. also another problem is i am really overweight and think maybe i should loose weight before i get pg. i dont know am i crazy? does anyone else ever feel this way?

 

Dionne - December 12

Hi, I don't think you're crazy. I think instead of ttc, why don't you just think if it happens it happens. I am very lucky as I haven't had a c section, but I do know ladies that have, and they say with the 2nd c section its not as bad as the 1st because you know what to expect, and my friends tended to heal faster than the 1st. I think that is also the same with v____al births, I was very nervous during my 2nd pg about giving birth as my 1st was a 27hr labor had no drugs till I was 20hrs in labor, so I think I prepared myself more for the pain that I knew I'd have during labor with the 2nd, but it was much easier. I know the example I gave of myself is nothing compared to what you would have gone through with your c section, but hopefully the ones with my friends will be a bit rea__suring. I hope this helps and I hope I make sense.

 

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