Kind Of Long But I Really Need Help

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ashb45 - September 10

Hi everyone! I'm new to all of this pregnancy stuff and I'm just trying to get some input =] Alright. I researched and figured out all of this AFTER the fact..lol but this is what i have gathered, and some of my symptoms. My last period was August 16th...I looked up my ovulation days, and it said i am fertile starting the 23rd of august, and my likely day to ovulate is the 30th. My period cycle is very regular. My boyfriend is a marine so I rarely can spend time with him..so you know what we were doing =] He got here the 23rd..we had s_x basically every day till september 2nd using the withdrawal method. We would be happy if I was pregnant so this is not an issue. -the very first thing i noticed was a stuffy nose i had for 2 days then it stopped.. -I did not notice anything else weird until september 5th,6th, and 7th..I had these burning type twinges/cramps in my abdomen..very different than i have ever felt with period cramps. I also was veryyyy nauseaus on and off these 3 days..which NEVER happens. After those 3 days the twinges and nausea stopped completely. -I also started getting headaches and burning kind of in my nose..maybe sinus problems..but idk i dont get stuff like that ever.. -my sleeping pattern was i was either suffering from insomnia all night..or i was extremely tired during the day. -I only have slight br___t pain on the sides. -and the only other thing is i am peeing SO much..i already pee alot and now it just seems like alot more. -I have taken one preg test a few day but it was negative. what do you guys think =]..is it in my head? thank you ahead of time for ur help!!

 

HLT1986 - September 10

Hello Ash. You and I have the EXACT same situation. My LMP was the 16th of Aug and well and my bf and I used the withdrawal method on the 28, 30 and 31st. We too would be happy if it came to that. I have twinging pains as "cramps" which I never get cramps until the day of my period, my b___st pain is ONLY on the sides and they just feel fuller, runny nose, and bad back pain.... I keep wondering if it is in my head too! I was told that the withdrawal method is possible to get pregnant, but there is only about a 10 to 15% chance.. Strange how some people go through the same things at the exact same times

 

ashb45 - September 10

haha thats awesome!! Yah i neverrrr get cramps till the day of my period either, and the days i got those twinges were when i would of probably been going through implantation. From what I have been reading we have a higher chance of getting pregnant from pre-c_m than that. Because I guess if he ejaculates within like 24 hours and then goes back inside you and prec_m comes out..it still contains sperm..and it sounds like both of us did it more times than just once..lol sooo its probly a little higher, and I aslo read that once any of his sperm is in you it can stay in you for 5-7 days...i was like watttttt? But mm idk..i hate waiting!! have you tested at all yet? do you have a regular period cycle? Because If you do then u havent missed ur period yet either right? im scared to test again..ah lol

 

HLT1986 - September 10

I have not tested at all yet and my periods are pretty regular within a day. I usually have a 28 or 29 day cycle never different never any different feelings. One thing I did hear is that if a man c_ms from either doing it himself or s_x and then does not use the bathroom before putting it in you again there is more of a sperm count in pre c_m... which means those twice in a row times are a high risk.. i too have heard sperm can live a few days in you as well. I am scared to test period!! I figure if AF doesnt show by sunday night I will test... but waiting sucks

 

ashb45 - September 10

ohmygoodness....we did it twice in a row a lot...haha we get a little carried away when he is home. yah i was going to test again saturday if i dont get it... this is all crazyyy...im scared but excited at the same time.. my bf thinks im imagining it all..lol soo i stopped telling him my symptoms..but at least i know hell be happy if it comes down to it..=] let me know how everything turns out!

 

HLT1986 - September 10

My bf caught me looking at this website and asked me if I thought I was, bc I didnt tell him anything about any symptoms, I dont have that many anyways, but I told him It could be possible and he got a lil quiet. He would support me and be happy, but he is about to go to another state for a couple months for work so that would be interesting timing for sure. I will be in Chicago for the weekend (from ohio) so if I dont start there then i will have to wait to test monday! I still keep telling myself.. "I bet af will come bc I have imagined things before.." Let me know how things go with you also!

 

HLT1986 - September 11

I had some sharp sharp cramps this morning and last night before bed and I could have swore that AF was gonna show early! Still nothing but man these quick waves of pain hurt!

 

ashb45 - September 11

i dont normally get af pains..but ive had some that felt like it was coming and i felt wet like i maybe got it..but it wasnt here and today i woke up and as soon as i sat up i thoguht i was going to throw up...soo i tried to jus fall back asleep..and i woke up now n feel fine this waiting is horrible

 

HLT1986 - September 11

I too have had a wet feeling and then check and there is absolutely nothing but a little bit of clear liquid. I have 5 nieces and nephews and not one of my sisters ever got sick or nauseated their entire pregnancies and I dont feel sick at all. If anything i feel really crampy, bloated and HUNGRY! over and over i keep telling myself its all in my head she will show sat morning as always. The interesting thing that happened to me today is that my bf, out of nowhere, text me today while i was in cla__s "you are prego"...where the hell would he get that from?

 

ashb45 - September 11

hahha idkkkk i think we both might be... but thats soooo funnny this morning i texted my bf and i was like babyy i love you...guess what... and he wrote back and was ur pregnant? lol and he kinda knows wats going on but we havent talked about it in a week..and i told him i probly wasnt last time we were talking about it... thats funny

 

HLT1986 - September 11

I swear the men always know before the woman sometimes. Maybe its bc they worry more than we do!! I am starting to feel pretty menstral, but yet I shouldnt see af for two more days...this day is dragging on and on and on

 

sadiejai - September 11

So.....reading ur stories im laughing out loud. My boyfriend says the same thing to me...everytrime i say guess what or i love u he responds with are u pregnant..or u are pregnant. lol.....

 

ashb45 - September 11

haha guys are funny

 

HLT1986 - September 11

Guys are funny for sure! I swear to god when I got home tonight from cla__ses though PMS had to have been zooming full force, anything and everyone was annoying me so bad I couldnt handle it, I almost snapped! I feel bad when I cant talk to someone without snapping at them... :-(

 

ashb45 - September 11

aww...yah ive been kinda bein a brat to the bf...lol i guess hes used to it if u dont mind me asking how old r u? i ask cause u said u were in cla__s? im in college now, im 20

 

HLT1986 - September 11

I am a Junior/Kinda Senior in college and I will be 22 at the end of this month ;)

 

ashb45 - September 11

ahh thats soo awesome..im a junior =] lol we have even more in common than our possible prego-ness =]

 

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