Ladies Plz Help Me

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js - October 14

I am going crazy here, my GF is always complaining about preg. symptoms and HPT's come out neg. Every month is different and now she is spotting lightly this month at what could have been IB or Ovulation spotting (light brown for 3 days.) It seems like every month she has a symptoms "that has never happened before in her life." In the meantime, I go crazy researching for all the info possible on pregnancy wondering if she is in fact pregnant. So my question is this: Is it quite possible that a girl w/ a hormonal imbalance can symptoms every month that are not normal w/ a regular menstual cycle but are similiar to pregnancy symptoms. I'm out of answers and/or solutions w/ this.

 

js - October 14

Oh, sorry, forgot to ask. Or is it also possible that it can take a HPT 2 months+ to show a positive???

 

Jen - October 14

PMS symptoms are similar to pregnancy symptoms. Plus stress and worry can cause your body to do weird things (especially if you are female).

 

Jen - October 14

And yes, it can take 2 months to show a positive but if she is that late I would get a blood test.

 

to js - October 14

Take it from me: She wants to be pregnant. She is looking for all the signs because she is obsessing over it. She is afraid to tell you that she wants a baby so she is going around you making up signs and symptoms its her way of hinting to you. Just come out and ask her. Do you want to be pregnant? She will then probably give you an honest answer and you and your gf can discuss it further from that point on. Good Luck.

 

js - October 14

Deep down in my heart, I think you are RIGHT.

 

to js - October 14

I am a women and I know that I am right cause I have been there. Are you ready for kids?

 

js - October 14

I don't think I'm ready for a kid. But I would live up to my responsibilities if I had one and she knows this. Hmm....makes me wonder...but Iike I said, I really think you are right.

 

to js - October 14

Sorry that I had to be blunt and tell you like it is. But I don't think its oppropriate to beat around the bush in this case. Now is the time to be a little more sensitive to her and get the truth out of her. You sound like a real stand up guy. Best Wishes to you.

 

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