Me And My Girlfriend

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Jack - March 12

This is what happend, we did it about 2 to 3 weeks before her PMS started, the month before that she got hers on the 14, the month after that, like i said around 2 to 3 weeks after we had s_x she got hers on the 26-28 or around there, and now its the 12th and shes getting cramps. should i be concerned? or what should i do. Thank you for your respond

 

Jack - March 12

forgot one thing, is it posible to have your period while your pregnant?

 

Jack - March 12

Please, can someone help me, im thinking about this way to much

 

rae - March 12

if she was pregnant and got pregant that long ago, she would most likely test positve on a test... so go to a drug store and buy one. if its negative you pretty much have nothing to worry about, and the cramping shes having right now may just be ovulation, so if i were you and you arent trying to get pregnant i would not have s_x or use protection for the next couple days, and all the time for that matter.

 

jack - March 12

ok thank you, but if she gets her period this month would she not be pregnant?

 

jack - March 12

Because shes getting cramps, if your pregnant do you get cramps around your peirod

 

Bethany - March 12

Jack-- Judging from what you said, it's possible that your girlfriend could be pregnant, but it's also possible that she's not. It's possible for a woman to see her period during pregnancy (although I don't know how often that happens) however, the best way to know is to either get a pregnancy test or have a doctor administer one. Whether she is or is not pregnant my advice to you in order for you not to go through wondering whether or not she gets pregnant is to refrain from s_xual activity before marriage. That way you don't have this concern and you have the freedom to just get to know each other more. Plus you don't need s_x to have a great dating relationship.

 

rae - March 12

yes you can still get your pd while pregnant, but if you think she got pregnant that long ago should would most likely test positive by now, so i would get a test either way and from this day forward make good decisions about your s_x life, like being safe. condoms arent expensive, and if you go to a planned parenthood if you live in the us she can even get birthcontrol for free up until the time she is 18, and after then its about $20 a month. well worth it. and what bethany says is very true, but not realistic. abstinace dosnt work for everyone and many people have s_x before marriage and go on to have very healthy relationships as well. its all about what works for you. so good luck.

 

Jack - March 12

ok, well how many periods around, because the last time we did it was like 2 or 3 weeks before her 2nd to last one...so i dont know if that means that she not pregnant or what.

 

jack - March 12

because she has had one, and then if she gets this one it will be her 2nd

 

jack - March 13

?

 

jack - March 13

once again, im thinking about this way to much. and i forgot to say this, we did use a condom when we had s_x

 

jack - March 13

but, she said her last period was very heavy...

 

jack - March 13

please help me out guys

 

Louise - March 13

I think you should get a test to put both yours & your girlfriend's minds at rest - however from what you've said I get the feeling she is not pregnant. I could be wrong obviously but from all you've said it sounds unlikely especially if she gets a second "normal" period. Also, sometimes women cramp a little during ovulation which is usually 2 weeks before period is due.. do a test though don't keep worrying yourself like this. Hope all turns out well for you.

 

jack - March 13

thank you very much, now i only have 2 more questions..haha 1. So is it correct in saying that if she gets her period this month she is not pregnant? 2. If we do take a test which we will and it shows up + does that mean that she is 100% pregnant

 

Louise - March 13

1) She could still be pregnant if another period comes but it seems unlikely especially if it's a normal period (not any lighter than usual) 2) If a test is positive she is pregnant (you rarely get a false positive) or has been and has miscarried very early on(you mentioned her last period was very heavy. Sometimes women lose a pregnancy so early on they don't even know they just think they have had a heavier than usual period.) If you get a positive I would advise seeing a doctor ASAP to discuss the periods still occuring especially as the last one was quite heavy.Hope that helps though it's all just my opinion I am not a doctor! :o) Whatever happens I hope all is well for you both

 

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