Nobody Here Really Cares About Anybody Else

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stacey - February 18

there are sooo many people on this website that have asked questions, truly needing advice, like myself, that have gotten noooo response bc people dont feel there question is imp emough or others feel that they are making it up, what ever the reason, all of you are here to help yourselves. all i did was ask a question and i got completely ignored as i know many others do

 

Rachel - February 18

Well there are alot of women who do care but i understand where you are coming from. i hate to see more of the popular posts as of people who are arguing and things like that. Every Question on here is Important because people come here for help. No matter what age, circ_mstance... anything i think we all need to help eachother out becuase isnt that what this post is for? To help eachother or get help for your self? It needs to clean up a bit. sincerely Rachel

 

lyla - February 18

Wow stacey, Im sorry that you feel that way. I do have to say that sometimes when I see a question and its hard for me to answer or has already been asked before, I tend to pa__s it up. Just post it again or when nobody responds, post an answer saying that any help would be appreciated. I have seen some that i pa__sed up and then went back to after Ive seen that they asked for an answer again. Im sorry for being one of those gerks. Somtimes its hard to get to every question and alot of them get pushed right down to the bottom, making it less visible, especially when new ones pop up. We would be pleased if you would ask again.Thanx

 

me - February 18

yeah. I dont know if its that they dont care, I just think that we put topics up that arent as appealing so they dont get read. mine was "cramping with bleeding and weird discharge". I guess thats not a very popular topic & not really exactly whats goin on with me. Ive posted about 7 of my own posts just to keep track of my symptoms & hardly any replies. I say, oh well. maybe noone really has any answers & they dont know what to say. It seems like lots of people on here know each other & have been talking for awhile so they have their own little conversations going on. I wouldnt be really offended :)

 

lyla - February 18

Hey ME, cramping is normal during pregnancy, as long as it is not a__sociated with heavy bleeding that is bright in color. Extra discharge is also common, but if it becuase itchy and smelly, you should consult a doc.

 

me - February 18

I was wondering about that. thought cramping didnt accompany implantation bleeding. the bleeding definately wasnt heavy either. thanks lyla

 

lyla - February 18

Some women do have slight mild cramping around implantation though. Good luck!

 

Kylie - February 18

Hi guys, its been 2 weeks since i was ment to get my periods. I have only had cramping like my periods coming but they don't and i go to the toilet alot and i am sleepy. i have not used any cdoms or anything for 3 months and i took a test and it cam up neg. My mother said with me her test came up neg too, so she had a blood test and here i am. do you guys think i could be pregnant???

 

me - February 18

hi kylie-I would say theres a good possibility. I am having some sure signs even though Ive had some light bleeding around the time I shouldve had a real period & im still getting -ive tests but I dont know, im feeling kinda strange. It seems as though, & I wasnt really aware of this before, that lots of women have neg tests well into their 8th week of pregnancy so you could either wait another week & test again or go to the doc & get a blood test- thats usually alot more accurate. Good luck to you!!

 

Kylie - February 18

Thanks ME, yeah i have booked in to see the Doc on Tuesday. Sorry just one more question, when do you start geting bigger etc???.

 

me - February 18

sorry, I dont really have any answers on that one-Ive never been pregnant before but I'll tell you what, Im feeling quite bloated and my lower stomach is looking really puffed up lately, I know it wouldnt be my uterus growing yet but I think you start to "feel" a little bigger within the 1st 6-8 weeks just from body changes and adjusting- good luck at the doc- my appts on weds

 

sara - February 18

With my first I did not begin to show until I was about 4 months. Im kind of pet_te. I believe that most first time pregnancies show faster than others. Hope that helps.

 

Kyile - February 18

Thanks again ME, Keep me updated hope everything goes well. just reply hear on weds or when you know cause i am not use to these forums yet lol.

 

me - February 18

yes Kylie, do let me know how yours goes as well- good luck! Thanks sara, I too am very pet_te and have never had a belly at all but this little pooch is appearing, maybe im just convincing myself im preggo & eating too much!! lol

 

Kylie - February 18

Thanks sara, yeah i have always been little i was 30kg til I was about 19years and now have been 40kg seen then. thanks again

 

tiffani - February 18

Sorry you feel that way. I wouldn't interpret that as we don't care, but maybe more like, we don't know the answer. Also, i'm like a lot of other people on here, it just gets so redundant answering the same questions all the time. Not that I don't care, but my time is limited and I choose to respond to the t_tles that are different, for a change. Grandpa Viv ALWAYS responds to any post addressed to him, and he's usually pretty informed with his response, so when all else fails, try putting is name in the "t_tle of question." Take care. :o)

 

SugarPie - February 18

Wow. That's a hard to read statement. Look, a lot of us are in the same position as you. We have absolutely no clue as to what is going on. Some of us are first time'ers, some of haven't had successful full term pregnancies at all. Have you thought about the fact that WE DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTIONS, so rather than getting flamed for giving you a wrong answer that could hinder you, most of the time people just don't say anything. I definitely don't answer people's post with the thought that they aren't important enough. It's simply that I have no d__n clue. What was your original question? Maybe that now you have our attention.. maybe we can find the answers?? Don't feel like people don't care though.. This board has helped me through some seriously rough times and hopefully we can help you.

 

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